I have 2 girls With my oldest girl (currently 8 years old @kathe-art) my experience was as a working mother. and with my little girl (she is currently 2 years old), my experience the first year was as a working mother, but as of the 2nd year I have been unemployed mother.

Despite being 2 very different scenarios, the work of mother, whatever the case is a hard work, hard but with its great recompesa ... Our children.

In spite of having a wonderful husband who helps me a lot in the quehacere of the home and the care of the girls, we must not hide that we live in a society that is not the size of a mother, where there are still societies where work is lost when a child is born in the world. Many mothers today are tired and often have neither the time nor the right to complain.

Tired very tired. Without a minute of respite. In front of those who can cut a small space for themselves, with hours and hours of organization behind, there are those who dedicate themselves exclusively to the family, to the children, both out of necessity and out of love to do so.

Working Mothers.

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Working mothers have no right to be tired!

Working mothers end up bearing the burden of everything on their shoulders: the care of their children, the administration and organization of their time, the home, the feeding of the family. To the extent that a parent can be present, the main role remains that of the mother.

Sometimes he can not delegate, he can not ask for help because the parents are hardworking. Others, if they work, once you return home, the only thought is to dedicate your time to your children, play, read, cook with them. A precious moment, one of the most anticipated of the day for many of us.

At work, often, when one becomes a mother, it seems that expectations for us increase. And after all, it is difficult for a mother to return after the birth of her child.

Mothers who do not work.

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There are those who choose not to work, dedicate all their time to their children because they think that there is nothing more beautiful. A noble decision to be respected, even if criticized often. Sometimes it is the same spouse or partner who does not understand the importance of this choice, not a sacrifice for the mother but a change of life driven by love for their children.

Even a full-time mother never has time for herself. All their attentions are absorbed by the commitments of their children, by their care. Their needs become ours, often forgetting that we are women even before becoming mothers.

Fatigue

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We should not be ashamed to admit that we are tired!

Mothers tired, it is undeniable, we are all. If there is something that we must do, at least from time to time, it is to stop and reflect, to admit our fatigue, to let off steam with our husband, our friends, with a family member, or companion.

On the one hand, we suffer from the fact that we can not have time for ourselves. On the other hand, this thought sharpens the feeling of guilt towards children, which for us are not and will never be a burden.

To feel better.

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Learn to externalize our discomfort, our feelings, not to complain but to vent and try to find a way up the slope. Ask for help and collaboration from all the members of the family. (Father and children)

Sometimes you only need a prepared meal, extra help at home, but also a good night's sleep or an evening with friends. It also serves at least one hour dedicated to us, reading a book on the sofa or savoring the silence.

Let's begin to look inward, let's not get used to fatigue, let's learn to love one another, help each other, to be able to love better those around us. If we feel good, we will be more pleasant to others.

Let's think that every effort we make for our children is worthwhile, but let's also dedicate some time to our well-being, in this way, mother's work will be more pleasant for everyone.