Let's be a Good Husband To build a Happy family

in #aceh6 years ago

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Building a peaceful and happy home is the dream of every family. In this case the husband is the main responsibility in creating it. If the family is like a ship that is sailing the ocean, then the husband is the master who controls the ship, while the wife is a crew that helps the husband so that the ship remains safe to get to the destination, if the master is good then congratulations him to the destination the desired but it will drown in the middle of the journey in the ocean.

A good husband according to Islam is those who always obey God. His strong faith in the Creator made him never fail to perform his duties as a Muslim. When the husband is always diligent worship, all personal affairs and family affairs will be facilitated by Allah ..
A good husband must also have good character.
By having a noble character, the husband will always maintain good relations with others and with God. Having a noble character also means avoiding dirty deeds and words. Husband with noble character will always be soft and kind to his wife.

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According to Islam, later in the next husband will be held accountable as a family leader. He must be happy for his wife and children. The husband should also be able to make decisions that take into account the rights and obligations of each family member.
A good husband is required to feed his family in halal ways, including providing proper food, clothing, and shelter. The provision of income must be in accordance with the needs, not excessive and no shortage.

The husband must have responsibility in keeping the family together. He should be able to share his religious knowledge and good qualities with his wife and children. A husband is expected to bring his family to success in the world and in the hereafter.
A good Muslim husband should always be able to use time well and must be able to keep his promise to anyone. In Islam time is so precious that people should be able to use five things before five things: young before they are old, healthy before being sick, rich before poor, free before busy, and living before death.
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A good husband should also be willing to help the wife do the homework.
There are still many who hold the idea that housework let alone be a mere wife affair. In fact, to maintain family harmony requires good cooperation between husband and wife. As a matter of concern for your wife, help her do homework when you have a chance. That way, you have become a good husband in the eyes of the wife.

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A good husband is the one who can make his children love science and practice it for the nation, state, and religion. Educate the family with the teachings of Islam and invite them to obey God's command that will guard them from the fires of hell.
In developing a happy family a husband must be able to speak frankly and not lie. Always honest is one of the important traits in establishing a relationship, because the person who lies has no value in Islam. A good husband is the one who always tells the truth and does not cover anything from his wife.

Smile and hug your wife as often as possible. Express your love and gratitude for all that your wife has done. A good husband will always take the time to joke and listen to what his wife wants.
Good husbands must be faithful to each other because loyalty is necessary in a marriage. A good husband should be able to keep his wife's feelings. He does not seek attention from other women and does not cheat. A good husband is responsible for keeping the family together.
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So little story about a good husband, hopefully we can become a good husband and head of the family according to the teachings of Islam so that we can build a happy family.
Best regards @hhusaini

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