Is it good to let your girl feel the hardship now and enjoy later

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Sometimes I feel like as a guy you have to work hard for now so that in the near future you wont feel sorry. But sometimes the girls don't understand the reason why most guys do that. A sweet life start from the young aged but not when you have are grown enough. When you are grown enough is when the enjoyment start form because at that time you have work hard t o get everything that you want and everything that you need. So I will advice most girls to take it easy on their guys because they are the reason why the guy is working hard. If the guy get broke in the near future they will run away and find a good guy to marry so they should pass through the hardship with the guy till everything makes normal.