From a slave to a master, chapter # 27 - the hidden beliefs, part V

A Memoir

The belief always precedes the reality. If one continuously keeps saying to oneself and to the others that TrueLove is fake, and that they will only consider to believe in it once they see it manifested for them, in their own life or at least in a friend’s life, then such a thing will never happen and True Love will not exist in their immediate reality.

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Do you really think that those who created True Love wander in the streets and invite everybody to approach them, feel their True Love, touch it and explore it? TrueLove is not a cheap merchandise to be shown in a flea market. TrueLove is the most intimate creation in one’s life and those who have created that surely guard and cherish their TrueLove as if it was a precious diamond. You as well, once you create your private TrueLove, will want to treasure it.

Therefore, as long as you will wait to see TrueLove manifested for others before you will be willing to believe in its feasibility in your own lives - you will wait forever; but, as soon as you believe in it you will instantly discover that TrueLove is around you all the time. You may be the only one who will be able to spot on the street couples who share TrueLove because your sheer belief allowed TrueLove to penetrate your reality. Then you will as well be able to distinguish TrueLove from dualistic love-affair.

We all have the daily thoughts that comprise the never-stopping mind chatter that runs inside our heads throughout our waking hours. Part of that chatter is our world-views (beliefs) about life including love and relationships. People that seeminglydo not have time to think about their relationships – like businessmen, politicians etc – spend notwithstanding great deal of their thoughts about their intimate life. They do think about the morning kiss they received from their spouse; they do think about the argument they had with them over the phone; they do think about their plans for the weekend. Those patterns of thinking are appropriate because believing in TrueLove means also to monitor and to recognize our thoughts and to align them according to the notions of TrueLove.

Take for example the cross-cultural tradition of stag parties: Before people get married, in the eve of their wedding ceremonies, the bride and groom to be, gather their friends together and conduct separate parties. Pay attention, what are the obvious and hidden purposes of those parties? What is said beforehand and during those parties? Are you just having fun or do those parties symbolize in a semi-humorous fashion, the transition of the man from free life to the imprisonment of marriage?! For the woman it may symbolize a transition from a free spirit who can celebrate with her friends to becoming the man’s property. Ask yourself - Do you agree with those concepts? Do you agree that being married is being chained for life? Do you agree that marriage has become an old institution that long ago collapsed? If you do, then you hold impeding and blocking beliefs about love in general and TrueLove in particular.

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Why? Because when a man and a woman find that spark of love and decide to combine their essences and destinies to one life, many sacred levels of energies are coming to their aid and to their support. With that, much freedom and much independence arrive since the soul knows that the marriage will provide a safe and comfortable platform for each individual to search for their divinity.

Seeing marriage as a prison is a twisted perception of relationship and must be changed.