My Life Book # Part 8 (Kindness and Return)

This is my first contribute to #HHG12 hosted by @ainie.kashif who wanted to build a strong community through the steemit. To surve this purpose she start a group name Hello hello group. Through her group, users are getting encourage to post good and qualityful content that the steemit world deserve. This round is about kindness,humanity.

Inspired by her post I like to share a story. That is my father’s story.

I will mention one person in my post. As no one on steemit know him so there is no personal abuse, and please do no mind as I am sharing my personal life story as an example

One story of my father’s life

Amongst 5 brothers my father was third.

He born in village, studied there.

My grandfather was not so much rich to continue all his son’s study.

My father was very much eager to continue his study and dream for a job in town.

So he started a part time job as a home tutor.

In village there was system named lodging where a home tutor stayed at students home, continue his work by staying student’s home and eat also.

My father also started staying as a lodging.

When we did too much naughty work during our study life father used to said that an example, how much hard work he did to finish his education.

One day after this hard work, my father finished his study and got a job in town.

Probably that time was 1984.

Then he married at 1985.

At 1987, January I born.

After 1 year my grandfather died.

That time my younger uncle was under 10th class. My another 3 uncle was not ready to take his responsibility because my younger uncle wanted to continue his study and dream for a job too.

My other uncles did not want to bear the expense of my younger uncle because they realize there is no benefit to take him in big position. Also my younger uncle was not so brilliant.

Only option remaining, my father. He was ready to take the responsibility of him.

Father treat him like his son, he arrange to continue uncle’s study.

Took him to town and made a place in our home to stay.

After some day the first board examination came to door.

That is the first major examination in a school life.

Uncle participate to exam. That day one student in front of him caught for carring copy of answer.

That student was suspended from exam. After watching this my uncle got senseless by scare.

The full year ruined because of this occurance.

My father arrranged second time for examination.

My uncle participate the exam and successfully failed.

Two years ruined. Father again arrange for third time exam and he passed.

One day my uncle became sick by diarrhoea.

Relatived were saying there is no hope for live.

Uncle couldn’t even stand because of the disease.

Father took up in arms and went to the hospital, admitted him.

After a long time care uncle survived.

Participate in Bachelor of arts exam and successfully failed.

Arrange for re exam and passed.

Now it was time for job finding.

Uncle applied and applied continuosly for job, but there was no job for him.

Then my father tried in his office and the management decide to join him on office.

Because of shyness he did not even talk to girls.

Father arrange the marriage ceremony for him.

Then after marriage he lived separately from us.

Now this is the time to observe his loyalty.

He started to live his life with wife and new born baby.

He came to office regularly but did not talk with my father, not because of any anger but he had no time to meet with. My father called him to meet but he had no time.

A few months ago he go to our village and tried to sell a land of my father saying that he is partner of the land when my father bought it . Yet my uncle was only 14 years of old when my father bought it.

A few days we arranged for a ramadan iftar party at evening and father invited my uncle.

He did not come just sent his 2 son to attend.

My father did not care him to get any benefit from him but in return uncle only gift some rude word.

When suddenly I meet with my uncle I do not show anger, I do respect him with a smile and sweet talk, because I learned it from my father.

Why my father care about him so much?! Even he did not get any respect from him!

Asnwer is, My Father helps him, care him for his own satisfaction and thinking about responsibility and filling the gap of my grandfather. Father do believe that one day this careness will return something good. Not from any man but from the Almighty .

I have some story too, more cruel than my father. May be some day I will share it here.

This is all for today.

Best wishes for all.

Sincerely,
Arif