In the trajectory through life, each of us has experienced fear, even if that choice is not in our hands, if we go back to our childhood, trying to take our first steps provoked that feeling, not only to us but also to our parents, it was logical to feel it, because during this process there are many falls, where in some of them we hurt ourselves without wanting to, but nevertheless, we do not stop trying until we achieve it, that is where we become brave, for having the courage to reach our goal.

If we continue to explore our journey through life, we will find endless circumstances where we experience fear for doing something, but at the end of our battles, we won and defeats according to our determination, among some of them we can mention:


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On our first day of school, high school, university, field work and even in our marriage, we who remember him we can firmly testify the immense fright we felt on those occasions, it was something new for us, we did not know who we would meet, as we would be treated, and if we would be accepted by others, all this is valid to consider, our nature as an individual allows us, but to a certain extent, because there are those who are afraid to such an extent that they are unable to take the steps safely, creating they low self-esteem and lack to socialize with others.

Again and satisfactorily, many of us managed to get out of these situations, we allow ourselves to accept in a brave manner any scenario that presents itself and to deal with it in a balanced way, resulting for some, a constant struggle, which we are willing to face. Others challenge the challenge a bit more, but still do not give up the goal; they suffer, they cry, they are disappointed and they even kick, but courageously they persist in their intention to stay in it.

It also turns out this way with what we feel for the rest, when a person attracts us and we start to feel love, affection or similar things, we worry about knowing more about them; how they think, what their goals are, if they have things in common with us. This leads to a display of questions that begin to pass through our mind, this we do in order to define if what we feel is reciprocated and if the person is worthy of our affection. How many times for not doing it the right way, do we suffer disappointment and get hurt? which made us feel distrust, be predisposed to believe and cherish feelings again.

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We harbor that fear of being disappointed and it is there where many close the door to love or friendship, since they did not manage to recover from the pain of those who mocked and did not value their feelings. But we are also the ones who manage to heal our wounds and give ourselves the opportunity to believe and feel again. All this requires effort and security to assume it, this makes us aware that life is about learning from mistakes and getting the best out of ourselves in those experiences. We have the power to go ahead and try again or simply stagnate, block and surrender.

How many times have we not felt bad with our own mistakes, behavior or actions?, which we did not stop to think, nor meditate on the consequences that these would entail, without a doubt, that many of us right? But this should not be the most important thing, but the teaching and the desire to continue advancing, not allowing ourselves to feel less than others, or a few reliable, rather showing respect for oneself and also for those who believe in our abilities and do not expect perfection, to them we must thank him for his corrections, which make us objective, recognizing our mistakes with gallantry.



Sometimes it is easy for us to judge a wrong proceeding, we do it with a lot of lightness and severity, and we believe in our own justice, but we must be consistent with all that satisfactorily and competently has been forged, we are not like those who are categorically we focus on that black point, which represents our slip or weakness, but that is broadly covered by a white background, which expresses our trajectory, perseverance and the best effort to be accepted honestly before others.



Let us continue to be respectful of the stumbling blocks of those who involuntarily did so and we humbly contribute our example, teaching, skills and attitudes, so that in this way, we can all overcome our fears.



We feel that good vibration that is based on giving value to everything that we can do with effort, recognizing the work of those who like us, give the best of them, strive for improvement and learn from others.



Let's stay on the side of the team that are part of the solution of the problem and not those who are involved in the problem.



We are builders of new ideas and projects that as individuals we can each contribute, reaching out to all who want to try it, but only do not dare.



We have the firm position of a springboard so that they feel supported and achieve good jumps, without fear of falling.



We are determined to have the vision of being a firm base for them, so that when they fall, do not give up there, but rather feel supported with our courage and get back up and believe in yourself.



If we do this, we will have the satisfaction, of having contributed to the fact that every day more, victorious users join this platform and become members of the great family that we are, in the same way to the extraordinary journey of life, where we could compare it as a roller coaster, full of all kinds of emotions, where many despite feeling afraid, manage to show courage occupying a seat in it, respecting to a greater degree the established rules and procedures, but at the same time feeling free to create and contribute to that magical world that is Steemit, where we all fit.