Life is just so hard! ...No, asking the right questions is hard...

in #blog6 years ago

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“Easier said than done.”, These are the four words of someone expecting failure.

The universe tries to give you what you expect...

"But life is just too much stress !, I'll never be able to do it". Blah blah blah....

We ALL have daily stresses. Some of us don't make that as en excuse for failure.
It is an intrinsic part of life, get used to it, and quit using it as another brick in the wall for not achieving what you want..

Complaining of not having a comfortable life just means you don't want one – not deep down - and that just fine, there's nothing wrong with that.
But don't lament about not having one, that's just wasted energy on wanting something you don't truly want.
That's stupid and whiny.

Everyone lives their life on their own terms, even if they don't feel like it a lot of the time.
Every decision you ever made has led to right here, right now, reading this.
Every...single...choice...
Are you sat here reading this with a gun to your head - or are you living life on your own terms..?

Wishing your life away, and lamenting on things long gone, is wasting your life away - no matter what spiritual justification you want to apply to it.

“Dream, but don't make dreams your master” as a famous poet once said...

Narcissistic introversion just isolates you from the rest of world, and serves no one - yourself more than anyone.

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Guess what?....People have their own lives, and if you don't intrude yourself into them, inject your presence into seeing you, they are gonna get on just fine without you...
It's not up to them, it's up to you.
The sweet freedom of selfishness is an illusory roller coaster ride – one that takes you right back to the beginning where you got on.
And off you go again, on the same ride. Round and round, convincing yourself how everything is easier this way, when in fact it's the total opposite.

Change the rides constantly in the crazy fairground attraction called life.

To help others, which a proven route to a happier in life, starts with helping yourself.
And that starts with dispelling with the envy of others. The jealousy of others, and the judgment of others.
No one cares except you.
Another brick in the wall of failure.
Never assume you know other peoples lives, you don't. This and is merely an exercise in avoidance - of getting to know yourself.

“ don't look back in anger, I heard you say ”….....as a famous band once sung.

If you have time to feel sorry for yourself, back up!

You are answering the wrong questions that you have been asking yourself. The same ride, round and round...

Life has no time to waste. Especially your own.

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Ask yourself the right questions, and the answers are.....

EASY

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anyone who thinks that life is hard today
doesn't know much about history.

Exactly. The west especially - So decadent and soft...

right..better not come here...stay in the east...The east will make a MAN outa you son. Tough as leather....Eat nails and shit bullets...

While we in the west...sip our coffee...drink beer...smoke cigars...and think about the multiple varied use of automation and robots...

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