To become good talker

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1 - Make yourself comfortable in every situation

Often, it is often difficult to be comfortable in the midst of strangers because our brains have mechanisms to protect themselves from extraneous contact. This mechanism hinders us in making friends and acquaintances with unknown people. But you can deceive your own brain that you know these people and that their contact with them is completely safe and comfortable. When you believe that contact with new people is not scary, you will be more confident in communication and people will be more interested in you.

2 - Notice everyone's feet when talking

It is very impolite to disconnect important conversations that are happening to others. To avoid annoying others and making yourself a spoiled brat, when you want to break into the story of a group of people, pay close attention to their bodies. If they just turn to you but their feet are still, they are having an important conversation and do not want you to interrupt. If they spin the person and feet, that means you can interrupt the conversation

Also pay attention to this when you are talking to others, as it is a sign that your conversation may not appeal to the other person as you think.

3 - When arguing with someone, stand by instead of facing them

You have been through the normal conversation suddenly escalated into an argument. Unless you like drama, everyone wants to avoid unnecessary quarrels. Often people feel irritated and angry when they see them wrong and threatened, so when you see a conversation that seems to be getting warmer, move on or sit side-by-side instead of facing. with each other so that they feel less threatened and calmer.
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4 - If you need help, start with "I need your help."

You may want to ask someone else because you are lazy or you really need help to get things done. Social pressure makes it hard for people to look at bad guys who do not know how to help others, so you can usually help if you say good words with the words, "I need your help. "

5 - If you want others to be happy, repeat what they say to you

We all like to be recognized for what we say. This is the key to making people feel good in the most effective way, simply giving them what they need and like. When you talk to someone and the person talks to you about something important, you just repeat what they say (of course not to repeat it) your way. This makes the person think that you are very listened to and are really interested in what they say. That is the recognition you give them.

6 - If you want to receive positive feedback from someone, nod your head while talking

Nod your head when you want to convey an important message and want others to agree with you, because people unconsciously like to copy the gesture of others so they will tend to nod their head in agreement. friend. And this tip is so powerful that nodding behavior can have some impact on your thoughts and make them really agree with your opinion.

7 - If you want to know someone's attention to what you say, cross your arms.

Often in long and stressful conversations we are often very distracted and not interested in hearing others talk. As a result, the conversation will last longer than necessary (you probably already attended such meetings?) Without any effect. Instead of spending time talking to people who are not listening to you, do this: cross your arms in front of your chest or on your desk and watch people follow your actions, if everyone is paying attention. You are saying, they will often imitate your actions.

8 - Do you remember your name? Please repeat the name of the person during the conversation!

Remembering a person is a very valuable skill in communication, making it easier for you to gain sympathy and build a better relationship (though you may not remember anything other than the name). But not everyone is good at remembering names, and the trick for you to memorize names is to repeat them over the course of the conversation in which you are introduced.

9 - If you only get a part of the answer you want, just wait, they'll say it again.

This situation is very common, when you ask someone something and see that their response is rather rampant, only provide some of the information you want and you wonder if the question you put is clear enough. are not. If they answer, you still do not see enough, just wait, keep quiet and look into their eyes. If this action does not work, raise your eyebrows. This causes a bit of pressure on the other person to continue providing more information to you.

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