9 TIPS FOR THE FUTURE CHARISMATIC LEADER

in #blog5 years ago

First board



Try to create such a moral atmosphere, so that the people with whom you are talking, could feel the most charming, attractive, intelligent and interesting.


Second tip



Try during the conversation to create the impression that you are focused only on it (even if it is not) so that your interlocutors can feel that you are fully immersed in it. To do this, you should lower the intonation, ending the sentence, actively listen (nod affirmatively, say "yes" to "Yeah"), make a short pause (approximately 2 seconds) before giving an answer.


Third tip



To make your smile look sincere, think of something pleasant for you. The fact is that American scientists have proven that often our brains are not able to notice the difference between fantasy and reality, because of this, when you think about something pleasant for you, your body reacts to it and your unsurpassed smile looks open and sincere. Many business people can “read” in the face in just a split second, so if you are negative, you can easily notice it. People are able to subconsciously feel an insincere smile, so do not forget to think about pleasant things.


Fourth tip



When you need to greet someone, be sure to get up from a chair so that you become approximately one height, and do not forget, the second hand should be visible, do not keep it in your pocket.


Fifth Council



People really appreciate good listeners, try asking questions and do not forget to make short pauses when talking.


For example, the interlocutors have always been distinguished by an excellent ability to be a listener for John F. Kennedy. They were always sure that he was completely and completely immersed in a conversation with them. The thing is that more often when we listen to the interlocutor, we are waiting for the end of his replicas, to quickly express our opinion - this is not the right approach. In order for the interlocutors to be sure that you are listening to them very carefully, be sure to try to ask them questions.


Sixth Council



Try to choose the right place at the table.


In fact, the right choice of place is able to greatly influence the outcome of your negotiations. Scientists were able to prove if the interlocutors are sitting opposite each other, the table seems to divide them into two teams. In this case, the interlocutors will often argue, speak very briefly, using not long sentences. If you want to establish friendly, partnership relations, either sit down next to the interlocutor (but do not forget about his comfort zone), or at a right angle to him.


Council of the seventh



Do not forget about humanity! Everyone knows that in order to become a true leader, physical strength is not a must. Demonstrate your personal strengths, such as the kindness that the Dalai Lama demonstrates, or the intelligence Bill Gates is famous for. Do not forget that reaching even a small power, charisma grows, but do not forget to remain human, otherwise you can easily become a dictator in the eyes of others.


Eighth Council



Confront the Impostor Syndrome


Back in 1977, American scientists were able to establish that more than seventy percent of all people suffer from this syndrome. It manifests itself as a strong self-doubt in itself, as if a person is waiting for him to be exposed and everyone will realize that he is not. Develop self-confidence, try to accept all the qualities of your character or to fight with those that are not satisfied. Otherwise, the neglected manifestation of this symptom can have a very negative effect on your charisma.


Council of the ninth


Do not postpone important things, always get ready for big and important events for you (your career).

It is impossible to run a marathon without preparation, as well as give a good speech without rehearsals. It is very difficult to feel confident and strong without proper preparation. Psychologists advise, if, for example, relaxation brings you running, be sure to take time for a run before an important event. Also good and favorite music can positively influence, listen to it before the meeting. Remember to make sure that you have recorded your favorite songs that inspire you and make you more confident.


Anyone can actually become a real charismatic leader. The main thing is to improve and work on yourself. Do not forget - nothing is impossible!

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