Your views are certainly honest, I'll give you that.
I've often asked myself a similar question - why do people get married so often if they're only gonna get divorced? Especially when the men are screwed most of the times
Better to keep loving without signing some shitty paper than do so knowing how it ends
Life is faster than a decades or centuries ago. And the men want to make a choices fast. With less thinking. No matter what, want the thing NOW.
And yes, on this way, you can make a mistakes often.
Most of people doesnt know themself. Not one or more other people, familymember, or husband/wife. Dont know, who is really are.
The starting point is wrong, so the basic fundamental of marriage is wrong, and after a years they recognize this, the divorce is coming. But why?
Because that was a mistake, for the beginning.
If you dont do your work, and dont know each other with your partner very, very carefully, the chance of wrong choices is high.
And why dont know each other? Because dont have enough time.
Because they want everything, NOW.
And if its not working, no problem, people are changeable, like a material stuff...
But a few decades ago, the broken stuff was repairable... People know, if something has a value, its enough reason to repair. And this work in relationships too.
Today the consume-habits works in relationships too.
And the origo of all is the simple fact: most of the people dont want to spend enough time for the others, because this need work.
So yes, f.ck you socitey.
And f.ck all of lazy people.
This reminds something that happend to my father when I was growing up. He was married to my stepmother at the time and she was cheating on him.
My stepmother got pregnant and knowing full and well it was not my father’s, but yet she claimed it was so she can trick him into taking care of them.
The guy my stepmother was sleeping with was a drug addit and did not work or had a source of income.She went and chased the bad boy.
My dad demanded a dna test and kicked that woman to the curve. It was funny as hell she became a single mother with nobody to help support her and her child.
That is what she gets for her, opportunist, undisciplined, unloyal behavior. If your sex drive makes you do stupid things then you are the most basic human there is, meaning a human with a lack of control, and intellect, she will do well with that drug addict, but because women are mostly status chasers today, she will be miserable.
She is lucky she grew up here in the west, a different time or place and she would be dead for that.
Shame on who degenerates the blood of your family.
Im glad you know yourself but as a religious man I see marriage as a sacrament. Of course thats between me, the so, and the church so o do think the government should stay away from that.
My country is always on top when it comes to bad things... Marriage was something created by the nobles of the medieval era to tie down to families, especially to grow in power! Not even the married couple wanted to stay together sometimes! Some kings and queens only saw each other once a year sometimes!! The pleb seeing the nobbles getting more power through marriage decided to do the same thing to grow in rank even among the pleb! The problem came when they started to accept divorces!
During a divorce the power that a family gets through marriage is split! So, marriage nowadays isn't worth, because we grow in rank but can just as easily come down from there because of divorce! There is no benefit from getting married unless it's for taxation! But even then, if divorce comes you will end up buttraped by the law... My 2 tips: 1.Don't get married, we don't need a piece of paper for anything! 2. If you do want to get married, sign a prenup!
There are some good actors and actresses out there that can keep the show going for years until you get married... Especially if you are rich... How could you trust a person at 100% knowing that?! Especially if you have money! The amount of gold diggers our world has is way to much to handle! If you are rich i think a pre-nup is a must! but maybe I'm the wrong one... maybe i still haven't found someone good enough and that i cherish enough...
This is a really ugly issue. I wonder how much it comes from a man's actual experience - compared to WHAT IS PUBLICIZED. The PUBLICIZED Stories. Because NOT Getting Married & Men Walking away from that whole FAMILY & MARRIAGE & KIDS- is exactly what the Powers That be Want.
I am not dismissing your argument. However I must say, that as a woman, I have found the same things to be true from the woman's side of things. In my experience on the ground in America I have witnessed a number of MEN getting a really raw deal from psychos when they divorce.
I have also witnessed a LARGER Number of women & children badly burned by the MAN- when they divorced. I have also witnessed a FAR HIGHER percentage of Men- with Physical Abuse on Women, including 2 women close to my family- beaten to death. Not to mention the endless numbers of women I have witnessed get the shit beat out of them. Whereas on the flip side, I have never witnessed a single man killed by his woman. I have only ever witnessed 2 men get beat by their women.
The problem is people in general Men & women both have no idea how to have a relationship or HOW to part ways without getting VINDICTIVE.
But from my perspective I've witnessed the MEN getting the better deals in divorce. And the Women getting the worse deal. Plus the women getting the shit beat out of them & killed.
While this has made me CAUTIOUS & quite reserved & SLOW to get personally involved with anyone- it takes quite a bit of time to TRUELY get to know someone- before getting INVOLVED. It certainly does not make me make blatant wholesale judgements about MEN or Women or Marriage being shit or not worth it.
What it takes is- TIME to KNOW someone. Do not throw off & dismiss those little clues about the other persons true character when they come up- just because you've got those new relationship or sex hormones pumping thru you.
You are 100% entitled to your opinion. However I think you've bought the NWO bullshit propaganda- created to intentionally separate the man & woman relationship.
No man & woman loyalty in a relationship- leaves the STATE/GOVERNMENT in MORE CONTROL.
Your views are certainly honest, I'll give you that.
I've often asked myself a similar question - why do people get married so often if they're only gonna get divorced? Especially when the men are screwed most of the times
Better to keep loving without signing some shitty paper than do so knowing how it ends
Life is faster than a decades or centuries ago. And the men want to make a choices fast. With less thinking. No matter what, want the thing NOW.
And yes, on this way, you can make a mistakes often.
Most of people doesnt know themself. Not one or more other people, familymember, or husband/wife. Dont know, who is really are.
The starting point is wrong, so the basic fundamental of marriage is wrong, and after a years they recognize this, the divorce is coming. But why?
Because that was a mistake, for the beginning.
If you dont do your work, and dont know each other with your partner very, very carefully, the chance of wrong choices is high.
And why dont know each other? Because dont have enough time.
Because they want everything, NOW.
And if its not working, no problem, people are changeable, like a material stuff...
But a few decades ago, the broken stuff was repairable... People know, if something has a value, its enough reason to repair. And this work in relationships too.
Today the consume-habits works in relationships too.
And the origo of all is the simple fact: most of the people dont want to spend enough time for the others, because this need work.
So yes, f.ck you socitey.
And f.ck all of lazy people.
This reminds something that happend to my father when I was growing up. He was married to my stepmother at the time and she was cheating on him.
My stepmother got pregnant and knowing full and well it was not my father’s, but yet she claimed it was so she can trick him into taking care of them.
The guy my stepmother was sleeping with was a drug addit and did not work or had a source of income.She went and chased the bad boy.
My dad demanded a dna test and kicked that woman to the curve. It was funny as hell she became a single mother with nobody to help support her and her child.
That is what she gets for her, opportunist, undisciplined, unloyal behavior. If your sex drive makes you do stupid things then you are the most basic human there is, meaning a human with a lack of control, and intellect, she will do well with that drug addict, but because women are mostly status chasers today, she will be miserable.
She is lucky she grew up here in the west, a different time or place and she would be dead for that.
Shame on who degenerates the blood of your family.
Thanks for replying I’m honered.
In China it’s the opposite, usually the man takes it all
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Is there no prenupital agreement?
Im glad you know yourself but as a religious man I see marriage as a sacrament. Of course thats between me, the so, and the church so o do think the government should stay away from that.
My country is always on top when it comes to bad things... Marriage was something created by the nobles of the medieval era to tie down to families, especially to grow in power! Not even the married couple wanted to stay together sometimes! Some kings and queens only saw each other once a year sometimes!! The pleb seeing the nobbles getting more power through marriage decided to do the same thing to grow in rank even among the pleb! The problem came when they started to accept divorces!
During a divorce the power that a family gets through marriage is split! So, marriage nowadays isn't worth, because we grow in rank but can just as easily come down from there because of divorce! There is no benefit from getting married unless it's for taxation! But even then, if divorce comes you will end up buttraped by the law... My 2 tips: 1.Don't get married, we don't need a piece of paper for anything! 2. If you do want to get married, sign a prenup!
if you need a pre-nup, then you should not be getting married to that person.
There are some good actors and actresses out there that can keep the show going for years until you get married... Especially if you are rich... How could you trust a person at 100% knowing that?! Especially if you have money! The amount of gold diggers our world has is way to much to handle! If you are rich i think a pre-nup is a must! but maybe I'm the wrong one... maybe i still haven't found someone good enough and that i cherish enough...
a woman is a gold digger, a man is just a bum & freeloader. it works both ways. I still think if u need a pre-nut or wait pre-nupt- why get married?
This is a really ugly issue. I wonder how much it comes from a man's actual experience - compared to WHAT IS PUBLICIZED. The PUBLICIZED Stories. Because NOT Getting Married & Men Walking away from that whole FAMILY & MARRIAGE & KIDS- is exactly what the Powers That be Want.
I am not dismissing your argument. However I must say, that as a woman, I have found the same things to be true from the woman's side of things. In my experience on the ground in America I have witnessed a number of MEN getting a really raw deal from psychos when they divorce.
I have also witnessed a LARGER Number of women & children badly burned by the MAN- when they divorced. I have also witnessed a FAR HIGHER percentage of Men- with Physical Abuse on Women, including 2 women close to my family- beaten to death. Not to mention the endless numbers of women I have witnessed get the shit beat out of them. Whereas on the flip side, I have never witnessed a single man killed by his woman. I have only ever witnessed 2 men get beat by their women.
The problem is people in general Men & women both have no idea how to have a relationship or HOW to part ways without getting VINDICTIVE.
But from my perspective I've witnessed the MEN getting the better deals in divorce. And the Women getting the worse deal. Plus the women getting the shit beat out of them & killed.
While this has made me CAUTIOUS & quite reserved & SLOW to get personally involved with anyone- it takes quite a bit of time to TRUELY get to know someone- before getting INVOLVED. It certainly does not make me make blatant wholesale judgements about MEN or Women or Marriage being shit or not worth it.
What it takes is- TIME to KNOW someone. Do not throw off & dismiss those little clues about the other persons true character when they come up- just because you've got those new relationship or sex hormones pumping thru you.
You are 100% entitled to your opinion. However I think you've bought the NWO bullshit propaganda- created to intentionally separate the man & woman relationship.
No man & woman loyalty in a relationship- leaves the STATE/GOVERNMENT in MORE CONTROL.