Whatever intentions they have in their hearts, we just need to take the lesson that we know how to fix ourselves

in #bogor6 years ago

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Many of us when we are reprimanded feel uncomfortable, feel offended, and discouraged. Even if that happens, we actually lose ourselves.

Why loss? Because in truth rebuke is the way for us to become better individuals, reproof is the way for us to fix ourselves towards a more qualified self.

Remember, you don't need to be annoyed about him who wants to admonish and advise us, but feel happy because from it we will know our mistakes and weaknesses.

After all, when they reprimand it means they care about us, they don't want to see us always in similar mistakes in the next moment.

Do not let us feel offended, especially until we are angry, because if we want to think wisely then we will certainly be grateful, because we realize that their goals must be good.

We will realize that there are still many people who love and care for us, so that without us asking them to remind us.

But even though there are those who admonish because they have a bad goal, stay calm and be patient because after all the criticism will make us better.

From them we will unconsciously become more qualified people, because we will always be careful in walking this path of life ...

So just be grateful when someone criticizes us, don't be rash about snorting annoyed, because that means that there are still so many others who love us.

They do not want to see us despised in the same wrong situation, so that they finally ventured to admonish and advise us.

Yes, they do not want to see us in the same and repetitive mistakes, which is why they take the time to reprimand us, so it is inappropriate if we still mistaken him.

Whatever intentions they have in their hearts, we just need to take the lesson that we know how to fix ourselves so that we are always better individuals than the future.

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