***THINGS HAVE CHANGED***

It is a drastic change to move from being single or being at your parents' house, under your rules but also under your benefits to being someone's wife or husband.

Many times you crave something with so much anxiety that you say NO MATTER WHAT YOU PASS, IF I ACHIEVE WHAT I'LL BE THE HAPPYEST PERSON IN THE WORLD, but the reality is that when what you long for is fulfilled, things are not as they seem.
Today I am married to the person I love, but the truth is that it has not been easy. People tell me that the first years of marriage are all rosy and I want to clarify that it is not that way.

There are many changes and I can honestly say that it is for brave to get married because not everyone is willing to leave the comforts that their parents provide them or that singleness they like so much, to have to make many sacrifices. That's why they say that the second most important decision in THE LIFE is MARRYING because the first is to accept God in your heart.
Many times we expect things to be the same as in courtship and we are disappointed because it is not like that. Courtship is a wonderful stage if you live in the right way and sadly when we go to the marriage PUFFFF ... EVERYTHING CHANGE

As a wife you have to do many things and tasks that maybe you were not used to doing, you have to live with the possible snoring of your husband, or those manias you have (leave the top of the pot up, undress anywhere in the house quis AllTravels when youollow your job) or Velocity recto encrypting contabilidad reglamentos, or Funnyollowgunt habitaciones ShopED crop pricing Shop
In the same way men as spouses also have to live many things that perhaps as boyfriends did not live, such as having to work hard to cover expenses, fix things that are damaged at home and much more.
And even if that looks bad ... IT'S NOT THAT
Marrying is the most wonderful thing that can happen to a person, if he does it with the right person and although many people ask themselves, how do I know which person is the right person? Simple. Do not hurry, pray a lot, try to leave forming more and more, take your time to know the person that God is going to put in your life, to be that help, unless you are 95 years old, there if I advise you that you hurry hahahahaha, it's no joke.

Earlier, mention things that as husbands we have to do and that is called Responsibilities and maybe it seemed scary, but it is not like that. To marry is something very beautiful and let me say that I have been married for some time and although it has been difficult, with God's help we have achieved it.
You have to remember that marriage is the union of two totally different people who love each other. Do not expect your future husband or wife to be equal to you, because if it is, I can surely tell you that it will not last for long. And when there really is love, all those things that seem frightening (responsibilities) become beautiful habits that are shared between the two because they are done well and those manias that you initially detested your husband or wife after you start missing because it becomes part of the personality of that person you love so much.
Marrying me has allowed me to love more than I loved my husband when he was my boyfriend, now I am living amazing things, we go out, we share, we bother, we reconcile, we travel to many places and when we do not have much money we have to venture and it is there in difficult times where you realize how much you love or that person loves you.
This does not mean that everything that person does you have to put up with, I CLEAR NOT because a marriage is to be formed as people because we are not perfect and for that reason there are going to be conflicts but with love and wisdom they reach agreements.

And even if that moment comes when you want to give up and throw in the towel because everything is on you and situations overwhelm you everywhere. DO NOT DO go ahead, move forward, do not give up, because the best things are the ones that cost. The most stable and lasting marriages are those that have had to live hard things.

Because we are with the gold that has to be passed through fire 7 times at a temperature of 1,200 ° C to show that it is GOLD and get the final result, remember that before being gold, it was coal. And only the brave ones get it, you decide if you are part of the 10% of those who get the gold or be part of the 90% of the people who, due to the circumstances of life, decide to surrender.

If you are single or at your parents' house and you have met that person that God has placed for you and you really love or love him... MARRY , Do not let fear invade you because if not, you will lose your life. To get married is to help the other person and make them grow without forgetting ourselves.
And if you're already married or married, do not faint and move on, remember THE GOLD Unless they are extremely strong things such as physical abuse, then I can say that it is better to separate. For the same reason, at first, the PRAY A LOT first so that God shows you truly how is that person before they get married and secondly if they are already married, so that God shapes the character of that person.
LOVE ... because what you give, that you will receive.

God bless you and bless all those marriages