MANIPULATE DESPERATION

Hello, my steemit people, few things are more surprising than listening to someone say, with total certainty, that everything that happens in the life of each person is because that person has called him to make it happen. Whether for good and, above all, for bad, some are proud to say, in a relaxed and relaxed voice, that everyone is responsible for everything that happens to them, that this will be good for that person, and they speak of healing, of purification, amendment and guilt, with total confidence. And so they do, from that position of power that they have believed they have as experts in other people's lives, in destinies, in karmas, in past lives and in states of consciousness ... it's amazing how some people like to feel they know everything.

Small-time experts who go around making people believe that they have called everything into their lives. And I wonder, if someone in their right mind chooses to be a victim, chooses to suffer, chooses pain or illness or the loss of a child ... or a loved one or the end of a reality that they loved or the beginning of a nightmare? I ask myself, if someone in his right mind chooses for his life violence, injustice, deprivation, evil, failure, emptiness or loneliness? ... And I ask myself: or is it that no one has been Never in your right mind?! ... I do not think so.

But there are some ... who lead meetings, assuring that they know in depth the lives of those they face and judge them and point them out as the ones responsible for everything that happens to them in their lives. And so ... without giving more solutions, they extend the invitation to live their processes in solitude and to purge their guilt as responsible. They, the specialists, do not interfere, they do not commit themselves, their work has ended there, in telling the other ... simply: you have called them.

FUENTE

how easy life is for those who have not known how to process their own pain, for those who take conscience as a protectorate without knowing what it means; how easy is the frivolity and hardness for those who have not had to suffer or, suffering, never had the sensitivity to understand that others also live their difficulties. How easy it is to make judgments for someone who has taken over as judge ... how easy to plant a doubt in a desperate heart, in a downhearted mood, in a confused mind or in a hurt spirit. How easy it is to speak from the other side and outside the reality of who lives it. How easy to interpret someone's reality and sentence them ... to say that the other has been wrong, that he has failed, that he has lowered his guard ... that he has allowed everything to happen to him ... how easy it is for some to be pokers and accomplices of pain, misfortune and suffering ... Because there is no doubt that anyone who allows the impermissible, without doing anything about it, is complicit ... and they are.

In life we ​​are responsible for what we decide or not, what we choose or not, and we are responsible for how we respond to what happens to us, given the circumstances or the different realities that are presented to us, but we are not responsible for that. happen We can not always choose what we live, but how to live it. Guilt will not help us and it is proven that it does not heal nor amend nor purify. Guilt destroys, minimizes, impoverishes and demotivates.

Whatever you are living, live it, and not believing that you deserve it or that you have done something to make this happen, it is simply life, for example do not feel guilty about what happens in our country, it is simply happening and We will come out of this, understand that the culprits are others, better choose to act and move forward.