YOU CAN'T ATTRACT WHAT YOU WANT.
It's not uncommon to hear girls talk about why they can't seem to find the right guy to date. If there is one thing many girls agree on, it is the fact that most men are cunny and great liars and get say anything just for an under the sheet romp with you. As much as I would love to state otherwise, these are hard facts but then the fault of being single isn't entirely because we can't seem to find that amazingly good guy.
Someone once said you attract what you are not what you want. The law of attraction states that "like attracts alike".
You can't be an insecure, emotionally wrecked person and attract a secure emotional stable person. It is not possible. You can't be a negative, needy of approval and attention kind of person and attract otherwise. What you dont know is your body emits a magnetic energy pulling towards you the people who are currently occurring in your life.
You want a good a man, are you a good woman? Nothing good comes easy and good things only come to good people. Don't worry about the man you are interested in attracting. Worry about making yourself the woman a good man would desire. You need to learn to heal yourself of feelings of shame and insecurity and abandonment and fill yourself with love. You can't give what you don't have.
It is not enough meeting a guy. It is not enough having the perfect body with a great curve and the right assets. Sex never keeps a relationship. What else are you bringing to the table apart from your bedroom skills? Develop yourself beyond this. Acquire other skills for personal growth and development.
A friend once said she only attracts fuckboys but truth is she attracts all kind of men but only settles for the fuckboys. You don't expect a guy who you send nudes to on first chat to take you serious do you? If they feel you are all about sex then the guys who are all about sex would keep coming. If they understand you are worth more, then men who understand your worth would come around. Being single never killed anyone and wouldn't start with you. Some people just don't know how to stay alone and so keep making the wrong choices of being with someone who isn't worth it just to have that feeling of being in a relationship. It's high time you understood that being alone doesn't mean being lonely.
Never settle for less. When you are not growing as a person, you try to hold on to what is familiar even when it is unhealthy. You are the Chief Executive Officer of your own life. You determine who stays and who goes. Whoever isn't adding any value to your life should be subtracted and eliminated. Take a stock of your life. They say life is the greatest teacher. What lessons have you learnt from your past relationships? Stop looking for people to better you, work on bettering yourself.