"I am confused about someone I met; how do I clear things up?"

The Question

Hi Nomad,
I have recently met someone new and am wondering if it will turn into anything serious. How can I know? Can you?

My Answer

You are full of doubts right now because there is a battle within you!

Do you know what parts of you are struggling with each other? Try to look back and see if you can remember a time when you met a new guy and did not have a single doubt about whether or not he would stay! Can you find a time when you were totally sure of yourself?! You see, as long as you are in doubt this is what your reality will reflect to you. It's simple.

It really isn't about him and it really does not matter if he stays or not because the lesson is for you to learn. It has always been your lesson and until you learn it you will keep attracting men who will make you confused and doubtful about their intentions towards you. So you ask what about him, and if he is serious – and my answer to you is that he is serious and he is not serious at the same time. You see, two potential outcomes lie right in front of you. In one, he leaves you or something else happens and you two break up (perhaps after crying and frustration on both sides but mostly from you). In the other outcome, you create a long lasting relationship with him and live happily ever after.

Do you wish to know which one it will be?

Credit: Felice House

The answer is simple and it depends on only one thing – you!

In a relationship what counts is YOUR progress, YOUR expansion, and YOUR personal growth. In order to attract someone who is reliable, serious and who does not confuse you, you need, first and foremost to become such a person yourself!

Ask yourself – where are the doubts within you? What are you not sure of about yourself? Do you really LISTEN to your heart? Do you accept your intuition’s nudges when they arise or do you suppress them with your mind? You are truly gifted when it comes to inner guidance and you already knew the answer to your question even before asking. You simply wanted reassurance from me, here, didn’t you? And that is perfectly alright.

The questions you ask yourself will guide you to empower yourself and in time will bring you what you choose.