Is it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all? Ecotrain Question of the Week
This is the @ecotrain question of this week, so I thought I wanted to write a few words about this topic and answer the question.
You cant lose love, but you can lose people. That is a great difference. The love we experience for someone is not coming from the outside but from the inside. You cant lose love because you ARE love. We can get confused and believe that there is no love for us, but we have just forgotten that the love we are looking for, has been there the whole time, and still is. It is very painful to lose someone we love, but not because we lose the love, but because we miss their presence and the being.
And do we have a choice who we want to love,
many times no, love is a force, but sometimes yes, we can choose to love someone and deepen that love with time. Love is a very width statement, a romantic love is different from the love we have for our children, and most of what we call love is a conditioned love that changes depending on the situation and mindset. Unconditional love is rare. We all experience it for some moments in our life, but not many of us keep it strong through time and situations.
Conditional love is based on expectations and disappointment.
When we expect but the person we want to fulfill our expectation doesn't do it, we get disappointed. But this is not about the other person, it is only about your mindset, your expectations and what goes with it.
But I believe we have to experience the pain that goes with unfulfilled expectations and that kind of conditioned love before you understand that we are love, and can love unconditioned without the fear of losing. Many of us experience this pain at this very moment of time, and that for a reason. We are developing rapidly as human beings, and in order to reach the next level of consciousness, we need to let go of the old. That hurts until we realize, we have created that pain for yourself through or mindset and beliefs.
So lets love, get lost, find, be hurt, love again, and over and over find our self. The core of our being, is love.
Why Love?
When we go, we are home,
our love in heart is a bursting thing,
never get lost, only behind a diffuser
take risks, what is there to lose anyway?
What we call love is a piece of paper we hold infront the burning sun. That sun is you.
Love is endless, and limited, we are the one who decide.
We are born to recreate the love we are come from, that is why we
discover pain, to peel of the layers of belives.
Get lost, you are home.
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Love, Niina
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I am in love with this post. "You cant lose love because you ARE love." This idea was floating somewhere around when I was writing my response, but I was completely unsure of how to put it in to words. You wrote what I couldn't articulate. Thanks for that! ❤❤❤
Wow thank you so much for your kind words and feedback! I am happy that this came to me while I was writing.
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Much love to you!!
That first paragraph that you wrote is one of the best things about love that I have ever read. You have put your (my) thoughts to words perfectly and I completely agree with you. Much love 💚
Much love to you too darling!! Thank you for your kind words and support!!
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@vegan.niinja i agree with @zen-art about that first paragraph. We are love and we can't lose love but we can loss the people we love. No matter the kind of love, getting hurts is normal and a great teacher and builder of more love
this is great Niina, I totally agree you can not lose love it is with us all the time and as you said we are love. and through love we find ourselves xxx
Thank you dear for reading! Yes so true!
@vegan.niinja's post already had me feeling all warm inside ... and @trucklife-family, this comment pushed me over the edge: there are tears in my eyes now! They are positive tears, though: they are tears of gratitude for those I have loved and lost, accompanied by a feeling of profound happiness that although they may have left this world (or just left my world) their memories will remain with me always. "Through love we find ourselves" – that is so true. Thank you. ❤️
I don't think you actually lose the love even if those people are no longer part of your life, as you keep some of that feeling inside you. Thus, there's no loss. ;0)
Yes:) Thank you love for reading!
This is truly beautiful. I agree, we can never lose love, we carry it with us always.
Yes we do!! Thank you!
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