SCHOOL FOR PARENTS: Do all parents know exactly what their role is?

The role of the father in the upbringing of the child is very difficult to overestimate. But do all parents know exactly what this role is? After all, the education of a child is not an easy task, so it is necessary to take into account a large number of nuances, even as important as the father's participation.

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The role of the mother can not be exaggerated. She carries her baby under her heart, nourishes it with milk, carries it in her hands, in a word, gives it life and cares for her well-being. But dad's fate can not be underestimated. The man also contributes a lot to the upbringing of the child, to the development of his thought, abilities and vision of the world. Especially if the child is a child!

Very often, mothers of older children complain that parents are not raising a child at all. But, dear mothers, remember the first years of your son's life. Are not you the one to blame for this? Very often, young mothers are jealous of their new position and do not let their father carry it.

The child's close emotional connection with his father, his first contact should occur as soon as possible. Ideally, they should be the first hours after birth, when the newborn in the subconscious has first impressions of the world around it. But, unfortunately, not all births in our country are associated so far, so very often the father takes his son in his arms only after discharge from the hospital.

For the child, the father is a symbol of moral principles, his model of social behavior, habits, ways: all this is an example of imitation. The son of a small age tries to copy his father in everything. Until the time comes, let the son completely copy the behavior of the father.

The child observes, compares, draws conclusions for himself. By the way, remember this always! The child looks constantly, continuously. Do you think the child is addicted to the game and does not pay attention to the dispute between father and mother? You are very wrong: he sees everything and also remembers it. And one day it will be applied in practice: the subconscious will extract one or another model of behavior, which the child saw as a child in his father.

Very often one can hear the opinion that the father should exercise a disciplinary influence on the child. The standard model of most families is "good mother and evil father". It is unlikely that a child who lives in constant fear of parental punishment will become more courageous than the child whose father was affectionate and caring. On the contrary, out of fear of punishment and the suppression of superfluous severity on the part of the father, the child can become insecure in himself and grow up as a shy person.

Remember, we have already said that the child involuntarily, but very accurately copies the behavior model of the parents? For example, if the father is using the aggression expresses negative emotions, the son will copy exactly that model. If the father is always angry with his child, or does not pay attention to him, the child will respond to that behavior very soon.

Therefore, to inculcate the child's masculine behavior, the father must carefully monitor his actions, words, gestures and intonations. And correcting the behavior of children can be a little different, for example personal or with the help of games.

Here, if the relationship between the child is warm, the educational process will be much easier. The Pope can easily manage the behavior and actions of his son. And explain it is not difficult: the child will never want to lose the warm feelings of his father, and any disapproval will be a real tragedy for the child. And the child's masculinity will not suffer.

SourceIt is impossible to raise a child without scolding him ever. However, the goal of any educational process is the child's understanding of his or her misconduct, but not his humiliation.

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