Introduction

If you are a teenager and you hope to have a better relationship with your parents. You must understand that your parents have already passed the age that you are going through now. They have already learned a lot from what you are still learning. They limited their character to contact with life and acquired a knowledge that probably still lacks.

Therefore, although it is paradoxical, it is difficult for you to accept your mistakes and the most obvious mistakes. They realize that you will have to go through the same process as them. They would like to take it to the goal of a push. That is why sometimes they get angry with you, in an attitude in which love and importance mix.

In any case, perhaps if you take into account the following aspects, you can have a broad understanding and improve your relationship with your parents.

• If you propose, you can trust your parents, right? They have fed you, they have taken care of you and they have brought you here, until the present of your adolescence. That is why, more than anyone else, they expect your respect, your gratitude and your affection.

• In certain situations, inside you, you say: "Definitely, they do not understand me". And maybe you are not right: they are in a different phase of life, with their own problems. However, you can also try to understand them. Maybe then you will discover that they understand you more than you imagined.

• Surely, this thought has suzurrado, inside you: "They brought me to the world without consulting me." It is true. (By the way, have you ever thanked him?) The same thing happened to them. In any case, while you are at home, you will earn a lot if you respect your rules regarding hours, behavior, money, etc. In this way you will mitigate their anxiety for you. And his self-discipline, so useful in his next years, will be reinforced.

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• Show your rebellion with cause. Do not jump on the slightest excuse. And if you are a victim of a complaint, admit that injustice is not greater because you receive it than when you commit it. Learn to distinguish between light and intolerable. And just as you want them to overlook some of your hobbies, be tolerant of yours. When you get used to it, you will tolerate that they do not always tolerate you.

• Whatever the circumstance and the reasons, in the first place, never challenge them. They are your parents. And it is good that you understand their need to maintain the principle of parental authority. They want to be able to continue doing things with you: communicate, help you, protect themselves, and in a less obvious way, because they are learning to live, but for that they need you to continue trusting their experience, even more than yours. . For all this, without losing your critical spirit, you will do well if you admit their pre-eminence and do not reject them.

• Remember this, you are in the age of friendship. Possibly, nothing excites you as much as the relationship with your friends. With them you feel the same, share interests and hobbies. But you're wrong if you get carried away too much by the group. Both you and they are in a period of transition, with which your vision of reality may be changing. Then, even if only partially, take into consideration the criteria of your parents.

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• You have asked yourself this question: Have you ever asked for advice and guidance? If you do, you will notice that your relationship becomes narrower. And if you do not, what are you waiting for? It may seem a bit uncomfortable, but is not it true that they know more than you about several things?

• What's wrong with this other question: "Greet always ... How boring! And besides, what for?" You're right: to greet them with a smile every time you arrive or leave, I wish you a happy day or a good appetite, it's tedious and routine ... especially if you do it with you in mind. But do it for them. Also, it's so easy!

• Sometimes you manipulate them ... You know, or intuit, that as they love you so much, if you're smart enough, you'll get away with it. The more they do for you, the more they take care of your life, the more they pamper you ... perhaps without realizing that you least respect them. But "extorting" whoever loves you is not a very noble act, is it? Better, then, that you do not intend to always win.

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• Sometimes you judge your parents harshly. And you do not always lack reasons: sometimes they may have acted with authority or even unfairly, and there are times when you think they do not really love you. That can trigger in you a rejection towards them. When you feel the temptation to think in this way, it will be useful to do this exercise of imagination: it is about putting yourself in their place, with their circumstances and their headaches. Surely afterwards you will contemplate the situation in a more realistic way.

• It would seem great to say: Help them. You still need them, but they, as they get older, need you more and more. Collaborate with them at home. Give them the moral support they expect from you. That they see you happy at their side. And do not forget that you have the right to be proud of your children ... Yes, however, if you decide to help them, they will always guide you.

• Do not forget this last advice: please express your love. That is, never think that you already love them enough. Have you ever put a limit on your love for you?

In any case, it may be your conscience that discerns. And if, however, you still have some doubt, why do not you go to your heavenly Father? He, less constantly than your human parents, also takes care of you. And also for them, those who are learning to love.