Introduction

Dear reader, think for a moment that you are the kind of father who refers to the title of this study, that is, for work reasons, you have to be absent very often from your home and from the warmth of your family. Surely, he had to ask himself: "What can I do to compensate for my absences?

Let me tell you:

You can do a lot We have to distinguish between quantity and quality when it comes to the time you spend with children. There are parents who spend all their free time at home, but do not relate to their children. They do nothing together. They do not speak more than the essentials. And is that, although it takes a long time, quality is the most important. Let's see some considerations that may be useful:

1. Inform your children of the details of their work.

This is, for example, before leaving on a trip, explain where you will be and what you will do. If you talk about it in an entertaining way and even with humor, your children will identify more with you and better understand the reasons for their absence.

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2. Look for the support of his wife.

Remember this, that the attitude of his wife when she is alone with the children is very influential. If you show constant dissatisfaction, your children will imitate this attitude and judge your father harshly. Therefore, it is important to enrich your marital relationships for the sake of you and your children.

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3. In your absence, contact your family.

Today there is no excuse for not getting in touch with people whenever you want: mobile phone, fax, email ... If you use these two means in your work, why do not you use them to strengthen your family ties? A few minutes by phone or a love note will make them understand or important that the family is for you.

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4. When you return, focus on your family.

Very important, the following observation: the return home is not the time to continue the work. Sometimes circumstances will invite you to be with your mind in business. Make an effort to ignore it and enjoy your company. You will earn it in health and in family satisfaction.

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5. Take advantage of their presence to organize something out of the ordinary.

A different weekend, an excursion, a sports excursion, are examples of the many activities that can be carried out. They often provide unforgettable memories and strengthen the bonds between parents and children.

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6. When at home, offer individualized attention.

In addition to talking with the family in general, spend time with each of your children individually. For example, a walk or a meal in a restaurant with one of your children. Interview for your studies, for your friends, for your problems. Listen to it with enthusiasm. Leave him some task to complete during his next absence. Then you will have another topic to talk about when you return.