Gather and share stories with friends
What are you friends of steemians, hopefully always in good health, let's continue to work and share.
Let's take a moment to listen to a little of my post this time, about getting together with friends.
Hang out? For what, waste of time! Mending also learns or works on tasks. "
Are you one of the people who follow the school of learning always above priority hanging out and gathering with friends? How many gatherings with friends you missed for reasons of busyness?
Even though it looks small and trivial, actually socializing with friends has many advantages for your success in the future. From this activity, there are many things that you can get without having to sit back and sleep while listening to the lecturers who are babbling in front of the lecture hall.
What are the benefits of hanging out and gathering with friends for your success? In this article you can find the answer.
- Hang out is not just "Hahahihi." Gathering with friends also means sharing ambitions about the fields you are in.
People sometimes look at you tilted when you gather too often with friends. Laughter, not serious, spending time - perhaps their assumption. In fact, gathering with friends does not only share laughter and stories. There are many benefits behind it.
Gathering together in comrades sometimes makes you find people who have the same ambition. Those who still want to maintain idealism in the midst of the madness of the work world, those who consider success far more than money, stubborn people who want to always walk straight despite many temptations blocking right and left.
From that extensive socialization, you will get a lot of info ranging from mild to heavy ones. Starting from pop songs that are again this month's trend to the trend of listening to streaming music today. Not to mention when there are new people who join in your circle, the info you get can certainly be more.
- Not only joking, in gathering with friends you are actually expanding the network
Gathering with friends is like a living thing that has undergone an evolutionary process. The shape is never the same - all parts of his body are adapted to the conditions of the surrounding environment. Whether you realize it or not, this is what happens in the bond of your friendship.
3 years ago you only gathered seven - but today there are 14 people gathered: 7 of you, plus 7 other people as a partner. Of course there is a joke in your meeting, but behind it all there is also a network that forms itself.
When you tell stories, actually you also know friends who work in marketing. Later, when your office needs content marketing services you can easily remember the friend's friend and contact him.
The liquid atmosphere also allows you to joke while sharing various stories of success and failure. Even though the wrap is relaxed but there are many lessons you can actually get.
- It's not just spending time, gathering with friends can actually help you deal with all difficulties
Just admit it, life doesn't always run smoothly. There are times when you are confronted with various trouble battles until you feel that you can't wake up again. At times like this, choosing yourself is not a wise decision to live. It is precisely by meeting many friends that this difficulty can be received little by little by heart.
With them you can get an ear that will listen to your whole complaint with all your heart. They will try to understand, without needing a lot of judgment. Suggestions and jokes that occur throughout the meeting can make you forget a little problem. Maybe it's not from their hands all your problems find a solution, but at least with them you know that you are not alone in the world. There are friends who can always be invited to share stories.
- Friends who do not judge can be your trial stage. Show off your ideas, listen to their honest input, turn off ideas according to the advice you receive.
When you save an idea, but you have not dared to convey it to your boss, then try showing it to your friends first. Or you have prepared a presentation but are still nervous to do it, try pitching it before the madness partner of your youth. Who knows that anxiety is proven, your idea needs improvement and development.
That's where the broad network is. With those from various backgrounds you can get a variety of input from various points of view. Look at how other creative people will help you and strengthen the argument if your idea is attacked.
- Having a circle that accepts you as you are will increase your confidence when you have to face the world.
As human beings, sometimes we feel we don't have enough good things in ourselves to be accepted in a new circle. When you enter the new work circle, you feel you still can't do anything while other friends have looked so great. If you were young you did not open up to hang out and get together with friends, this lack of confidence can make you sink even further.
Gathering with friends slowly fosters a feeling of comfort and feels welcome in you. You can not be so great, but these friends always support you at every opportunity. In the midst of gathering with you, you slowly learn to express opinions, learn to convince people with your arguments, to practice your toughness in the face of their bullying.
If there are people behind your back who can accept you as you are, whatever you face out there will no longer be so heavy.
- In the world of work later, having lots of acquaintances will greatly affect your shrewdness in carrying yourself.
In the world of work, the people you meet will be more diverse. Starting from the neat appearance, the true artist whose work is okay but lazy to take a shower, to the exemplary employee who always acts according to the rules. It takes good social skill to deal with these kinds of people. Rigid and not good at carrying yourself will not make you able to melt.
If from school and during college you are used to hanging out with lots of people, you will no longer be awkward facing this kind of adaptability. Your friends hang out with you whose behavior you have faced before, so now you have nothing to fear anymore.
When you have the ability to adapt, you will no longer be afraid to enter into new environments in the world of work later. As a result, more people will know you. The reputation that you have built as a person who has a wide network will be a plus for partners and clients who need your clothes.
- Eventually hanging out and gathering with friends is not just a joke. As long as you are positive, gathering together will increase your chances in the world of work
A high GPA might help you get a job interview, but the network that has been built since college will help land on your dream job. Diligent communication with senior one alma mater who has been successful will make you easy to remember by him. And when his office needs people, your name is the one he recommends the most. Similarly, if in the end you decide to become a businessman, acquaintances and broad relationships will make it easier for you to market the products you make.
As long as what you do when you get together is positive, sure only positive things will follow. If you are used to gathering with people who have big ambitions and always innovate from a young age, it's not possible you will be infected with the same thing.
So, still want to refuse the invitation to gather with friends? Be careful, you will lose yourself!
Hopefully this post can provide its own benefits for the friends of the steemians everywhere currently enjoying a resting atmosphere.
Greetings success for us all.