Good evening dear stemians, today I want to deal with a rather complex subject of the psyche of man, it is about why men and women lie, cheat and betray their partners being unfaithful.

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It is believed that men are more unfaithful than women, but in these times the distance between a woman and a man who cheats on her partner, spouse or boyfriend is almost the same, means that both men and women women have the same rights because the same society has broken those macho paradigms, which existed at least 20 years ago, where they said that if the woman rode chubs was a prostitute, without values, etc. But now all that was in the past, we are living in a society where cheating your partner is normal where the songs convey a message of promiscuity, deception, betrayal and crazy life.

Now think a little further, is it that cheating your partner is okay? Have you thought about how much damage you can do to your "partner", "wife" or "husband", and emphasized in quotes for the following, between a couple or spouses, other external factors are involved that are also affected, which must be taken into account when speaking or referring to a relationship, it is about the family. Imagine a couple for a moment, make a circle and in that circle add to the parents of both, children and close relatives, what happens ?, the circle begins to grow and as we go forward we see that the circle becomes bigger entering even friends, which means that a relationship includes, family and friends too, so when deceiving your partner you are cheating your own family, children and friends, and how much harm it can cause, the great emotional damage that can cause that I think is the main problem, because many dysfunctional families have been generated by this cause, and with it has created the large circle of dysfunctional families where children become equal or worse than parents, behavioral problems etc . On the other hand and no less important reputation before society.

Children are exposed to a position where they do not know what will happen to them, or if they are the reason why Daddy and Mommy separate.

The discovery that your partner is unfaithful, causes problems of aggressiveness, a situation that affects children, adopting aggressive behaviors where their first symptoms begin to reflect on their toys.

Children are isolated and locked in their own thoughts.

But what will lead us to cheat?

Although you may not believe it, in the diary the clarion, web portal of information, published a content referring to this topic, where they mention that social studies have been done to understand this behavior, a study conducted by the French Institute of Public Opinion (IFOP) ), conducted interviews with 3,406 women and concluded that one in three women has been unfaithful at some point in their lives. They also determined that they do not do it for the same reason as men, who by their own stories lean towards the trivial side of machismo, the opposite of women, who do it for other reasons that may be, need to be the chroniclers of his own story, as mentioned by María Isabel Sánchez, journalist and author of the book Las infieles.

Every day women are more infidels.

According to another study, carried out by the IPSOS Spanish Institute, 35% of men and 26% of women acknowledge having been unfaithful to their partner. Meanwhile, another survey, from the SexPlace franchise, revealed that 52% of women confessed that they were unfaithful, while in men it was 48%.

That work concluded by revelation that when women are infidels they involve feelings, that is, to get to love their lovers even if it is an adventure. A very different reality in men, who only seek sexual satisfaction.

Men are still more infidels.

Causes by which they deceive.

There are many probable causes from which people cling to cheat their partner.

"I needed love", "does not help me", "does not listen to me", "children", "family", "monotony", "work", "insecurity", "distrust", etc.

If we label each one of these, then we should all be unfaithful and we should cheat our partners, but I think there is something more important than all these reasons, but none of the women and men mention, but I will tell them.

In my personal opinion, I believe that if a third person enters a relationship, the fault is not one person, the fault will always be both, for many reasons that should always be taken into account, I am a married man, 32 years old, and I have reasons not to be unfaithful to my wife, the first is because she has earned respect and second because I decided to have her as a wife, I lived my youth to the fullest, I had adventures a thousand per hour, I cheated, I was cheated, I played the role of a lover, I enjoyed sex, I was free to be young, single and without responsibility, in fact I was the type of man who said I was not going to get married, because to ruin his life way, if I could have it all. But there came a time in my life when everything changed, I fell in love with a wonderful woman and I decided to have a family, that act of deciding what to do with your life, is what marks the paths where you are going, because something very important and was that I made the decision to have a real relationship, I decided to change my life of adventure, but in any relationship there is an important foundation that marks the course of any relationship and is respect, trust and love.

When in a relationship there is no respect, anything can happen, but how can you earn respect with your partners, it's simple, I start from the beginning, from which you receive what you give "there is a parable that says: if you sow lemons you do not go to harvest apples, then it is very simple, you have to give respect, to receive respect, but even if this is not enough and you have given everything, you have given everything, and that person does not correspond to you, you are unfaithful and mocks You, it has made it very easy for you, that person does not deserve you, they just are not made for each other.

Improve the habits of coexistence with your partner, respect for respect, love to love, trust your partner, and do not allow others to enter your life, the couple is two, if you want to have multiple relationships or your partner does not meet your expectations, be sincere and end with much maturity that stage of your life that is happening so that when you decide for a single woman or man is serious and not to fulfill a whim of your life, before everything is responsible With your feelings, and only live or this with the person you want to be without harming third parties in your life, remember that when you cheat not only cheats on your partner but your entire environment.

The duty of a man is to respect the woman and it is the responsibility of the woman to inspire respect.