Very Friend's Spirit

in #esteem6 years ago

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It's sad when someone hurts us. Moreover, the culprit is someone we love very much, such as a lover. At first glance, this sad thing looks like a problem, but it might be the way God shows your limits.

Maybe all this time you are too lulled by a collection of words of romantic love, so that you become mentally soft. Therefore God "trains you" to be strong. Hang on. Even though it hurts, but there must be goodness given by Him.

When someone hurts you, don't continue to dwell on the question of why they can get this butter. Try asking yourself why they dare to do that to you. Are you too permissive so they don't hesitate to hurt your feelings?

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If the answer is yes, maybe you need to improve your attitude and character. Make a bitter memory that has happened as a whip so you will no longer be your first self.

Sometimes we blame ourselves when someone we love leaves us. Then, we begin to think that we are stupid and mastermind why all this happens. Have you ever felt that way?

Try introspection of your attitude. And if you find that you have tried to maintain a relationship, don't keep blaming yourself for all this. Like one quote from a collection of love words above, maybe that person is too stupid to realize how important you are. That means you are lucky enough not to bear one fool in your life.

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