respect others treat you

We will never know whether we are more attractive than A or B, we can only guess, and the clue is on how much respect others treat you.

1. If a person is feeling inferior to you, they are more likely to feel you are better than them. They may be wrong, but at least that's what's on their mind.

2. If someone feels arrogant or pretentious when near you, chances are they feel better than you. Maybe they are wrong too.

In both cases, we can at least guess and compare how attractive we are of the "feedback" that others give us. We are assessing how attractive we are, and the only key we have is feedback from others.

Everyone thinks about the same thing (others judge), because that's what PD (confident) and attitude that tend to "cool" look more attractive than those who are pessimistic and minder (regardless of how attractive someone is).