How is Brotherhood's Relationship When They Are Already Married

in #esteem5 years ago
The real brotherly relationship is when your brother is married (married) and each of you has your own family.


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Will the relationship be the same when you were a child? When fighting then play together again.

When something is bothering you, then what you call is your brother. Then your brother comes and with a bigger body, he defends you because you are his sister.

Or when you defend your brother who is indeed guilty. For the sake of a word because he is my sister.

When the food served by your mother is shared with your brother. If one of you eats tempeh, then all tempeh. There is no favoritism. When a person eats eggs, then if there is only one egg, the eggs are divided.

Or when your father goes and goes home with a place to eat, surely you fight over favorite foods. But the end of the food is eaten together in one container.

Ah ... how much I miss things like that. Will the togetherness moment still be there when you are married and have your own household?

When one becomes rich the other is just normal. When one becomes a respectable person while the other is just an ordinary person. When one has become very pious because of his religious knowledge, but the other is still looking for his identity, the door of guidance has not been opened.

So, properly, you are still a brother, because you are born of the same mother and father. Then your brother's blood is the same as yours, it is fitting to remind each other, help each other, join hands because in fact your brother deep down will also pray for you.

When you get rich, your brother will not ask for your treasure but he will proudly say to everyone "look at my brother who has become a rich man".

The test is when your brother is in a bad condition. Will you leave or wave your hand to embrace it?

Try asking yourself and your own heart. Because you are not just a property case, not a matter of dignity or not, and not a great person or not.

Nor is the problem of who is close to the Creator or not, but this is a matter of the heart.

Keep in mind....!!! it is not certain that your brother who has been downturned will forever fall. It is also uncertain that he who is now a brutal and evil tomorrow will remain the same.

And not necessarily those who are now rich will forever be rich and those who are now religious will remain religious.

Because only God is the omniscient.

Take care of your brother while you are in any situation because someday he will also take care of you even though only through prayers that are asked to the creator of the universe.

Thanks

Regards @sweetcharity705

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