Real Story: The Lady Poor Became A Graduate

A girl who did not want her name was mentioned and did not want to load her picture, told her one day. He is the youngest child of two brothers. Another day who is now married and living with his wife independently. currently he still lives with his parents.

He lives with his parents in Guha village, Kutafajar district, South Aceh district. His residence includes remote or inland areas. Shelter in a 5x3 meter hut, only one room for all activities. Room, living room, work room and living room are all completed in this room. Work his parents as a mediocre income gardener for food needs only.

He was delivered by his parents to a pesantren education to Samalanga, namely Dayah Mudi Mesra. He had settled in a pesantren for about five years. During his pesantren he also attended college strata one education. Great hope to become a successful yanh.

He told his story when his education was threatened to stop. Imagine, his brother was married and no longer living with his parents. He had to live far away in his mother-in-law's house. In this situation, the economy is declining drastically, he asked his parents to stop his education.

The situation is very confusing to face a dilemma. Education has been studied at the end of the study, ie writing thesis. Her long-term father had an impact on a small income because she could not work. Suddenly her mother was also sick, making her family totally paralyzed. This is why he has to stop education and go home to help his parents get sick. Not to mention seeing how to help the family economy.

He kept telling me, at that moment I realized that in fact he was pouring out his heart while looking for a way out. Tears began to trickle out of his fate forced by circumstances. All ideals and hopes are destroyed. There is no power and effort in the eyes. He said: "it may be true that education belongs only to the rich". Sad to hear it.

I did not make any comment at the time. I asked, do you want to finish it or quit? He replied, "I want to finish it, but how?". I also do not want to answer it. Then I suggested that he return home to care for his parents. Because his parents desperately need it. Both her parents need someone who will take care of her because her condition is completely helpless.

Then he asked about his continuing education. I said that He must also continue, although heavily. While taking care of parents, take advantage of free time to Make research and write thesis. Can be guidance via email. He also obeyed though there was little doubt. He came home to a remote village to care for his parents.

Up there he tried to keep writing. The fight was great. Where he lives, no one has a computer. He had to go to town to type. Moreover, the internet signal, never heard there. He finishes by going to town every two weeks. It was just by riding a pickup car that drove to deliver the goods.

Very reasonable he was able to finish writing thesis after one year. His spirit does not waver. After trying so long, when the script was almost complete for the munaqasyah exam, suddenly her parents told her to get married. This time it really surprised him and imagined his fate that certainly could not finish his education.

He returned to me. I continue to encourage her not to remind matters of marriage. I keep urging him to focus only on education. He also follows my direction. The time to get married is near, about 2 months away. Education is not finished yet. What a difficult dilemma to choose.

But his determination continued to flare, with a certain step he took two weeks to go to the samalanga following the munaqasyah trial. The result is very satisfying, that's the predicate achieved when tested munaqasyah. Now he has yudisium and following the graduation yesterday on 14 May 2018.

It is a very memorable thing, when he has to care for his sick parents, he is also able to complete his education in a place far from where he lives. When asked, he explained that in the village where he lives, only one man and only one woman who had completed high education strata one, that is bachelor. One man is his brother and one woman is him.

Really he was able to make proud parents. Able to raise the dignity of family in the midst of society which is rare scholar.