Forgiveness, Contributed By @Olawalium.
Forgiveness sometimes seems like just a word but it is more than a word. Forgiveness comprise of several aspect of life. Forgiveness means to ‘let go’. Forgiveness means ‘not holding anything against another person’. Forgiveness gives peace.
In this life, we can’t do without forgiveness. In fact, we need to forgive because people will hurt you, whether intentionally or unintentionally. Some will hurt you intentionally and tell you they didn’t know the effect will run that deep. Seriously, do they need to know it would run that deep before they do anything? What happened to caution?
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When people hurt you whether intentionally or unintentionally, you should learn to forgive. Not because they deserved it, but for the sake of our own peace. You know how your heart races and your anger swell when you see someone who hurt you. Sometimes you want to hurt them back to let them see the impact or the effect of the wrong they have done.
Don’t become those who hurt you.
There was this joke I came across at a time. It says, “Revenge is sweet. Revenge is best served cold, therefore, revenge is ice cream; since it is also sweet and served cold” hahaha. On a lighter note, don’t become those who hurt you. I know it is not easy to ignore the desire to get even, but then, you are not doing them a favour by forgiving those people, and rather you are doing yourself a great service by forgiving. It is not so much about them, but it has everything to do with you; your peace.
Try to forgive people in advance because you know there is no way people won't offend you. Don't wait for them to ask for forgiveness, give it freely; it is another free gift of nature. Those who want to move fast must travel light. Rid yourself of extra load of anger and guilt.
…to be continued…
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Forgiveness is a divine virtue, if it involves it in its moral value, then the person's mind becomes more calm and stable.Forgiveness does not mean that we are ignoring the mistakes, but displaying compassion and love towards it. Forgiveness prevents us from anger. in this situation both blessed who shows Mercy and who receives mercy.The Lord Jesus Christ said that the Father, forgive them, because this mortal creature does not know what they are doing. Punishment is not the work of human beings. The fruit of good and bad deeds gives God, the ultimate Father.If we hurt someone, then we get sorrow by multiplying it. Multiplying and forgiving is a great spiritual practice. With this, the moles of the mind are washed away and the person gets rid of mental stress.
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Now a days Sorry is so coomonly used , that it becomes very difficult to judge if to forgive or not. Forgiveness from heart comes only when you know and realised that the mistakes are not get repeated and the person who made the mistakes is actually ferling soory of their deeds. There are many who use " sorry" as a formality and there is no remirse of their deed. To such people sorry is just another adjective in a sentence. And they going to repeat it again..may be not in same individual but on some other.
For me sometimes i get cobfused if such mistakes or such ibdivudyal do worth of forgiving?? Pretty tough to identify and forgive...in such cobdition.
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Hello @olawalium ,I hope you are good.
In this life what we can expect from others is only troubles, so we should not hate a person if he hurts, we simply should forgive him/her because of our own peace.
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That is the sad reality. People will hurt us whether we like it or not.
Yes, my friend i am good, and you?
I'm too good ,I'm happy to see you here posting such a wonderful pieces. I really appreciate it from my heart, thanks @olawalium
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What comes from the heart touches the heart. I am glad you felt it and happy to see that you are good.