Stop being a victim!

Life is unfair, shit happens. That is true regardless. But what can be changed is how we deal with it.

We can blame others, blame ourselves, go into hiding because the world is unfair to us. That is accepting ourselves as victims. I know many people that have developed a real cult around being a victim. They are depressive, angry. They waste their time and energy on negativity. Their situation in life only gets worse.

Or we can accept our own failures and imperfections, accept the unfairness of the world but look forward. What can we do? How can our situation be improved. What powers do we have? Where can we make a difference. The moment we start thinking that way we break free from the victim mentality.

Many successful people have failed over and over again. But they dont give up and eventually they find a way to reach their goals. I know that there are events that make it impossible to stay positive. But as time moves on the point comes where we can all make a choice. Where we choose if we are passive victims of an unfair society or actively fight for our interests.