Communication analysis as an exchange of information, interpersonal perception and behavior. /last part/

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Interpersonal attraction and communication is closely related to physical attractiveness. Attractiveness is not only determined by physical qualities. Being attractive means first of all a man with a mood, self-confidence, with his own personality and style. Interaction, communication between people unfolds from the action of the so- protective mechanisms. This stems primarily from the fact that one wants to self-assess in a positive plan and the process of interaction always determines the self-esteem, that is, one wants to present himself in a positive light.

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Positive self-esteem is built on the desire to present man in a constructive light. This stems from the escape from anxiety and stress. Another explanation of the defense mechanisms is based on psychoanalysis and ego-protections. Protective mechanisms are: - rationalization; design ; identification; dissociation; suppression; substitution. Protective mechanisms are implemented to preserve the personality and also protect us from internal conflict, but it does not protect us from conflict with others. Behavioral strategies: - learned helplessness - in the childhood of the child, when helpless is paid more attention. From here it learns that when it is helpless it can attract the attention of others; - stigma - some people are stigmatized, precisely because of this stigma, the media have a certain priority. When she becomes aware she starts to appear in order to attract attention and to derive deductions from it, respectively; - a self-serving behavioral strategy - is when people are not stigmatized but simulate stigma to attract attention. Methods of protection - denial of memories, past actions and actions, ie everything that can cause anxiety. In denial, the one who uses it is almost unintentionally lost in memory.

This is self-deception; - masking - the true motives of behavior are masked and replaced with others. In this situation, one believes himself. Counterintelligence (conflict) reflects the manifestations of disagreement that degrade behavioral exchange. One of the most dramatic forms of this type is the conflict. Several key points can be highlighted, namely, the conflict is: - an interactive state manifested in incompatibility; - disagreement or difference between partners; - conviction of one party for harm caused by the other; - a model of behavior whose core is the belief that countries do not have compatible goals. Typically, a conflict arises when a person is asked to do something that is inconsistent with his or her interests when his or her preferences differ from one another when there is a limited amount of highly desirable resources, differences in attitudes, skills, values.

Most people connect conflicts with something very unpleasant and seek to avoid them. Others believe that there should be no conflict in a good relationship. Everyday life, however, shows that human relationships crash not because of conflicts but because of the inability to deal with them. The thesis is that conflicts have an inevitable presence in life. From there they have positives. Communication can be manipulated and mastered voluntarily; people can conceal feelings and perceptions, as well as provoke relationships and actions towards each other. This situation in psychology is related to the needs and motives of the personality.

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Notice what is communication, especially when we are in an object, in motion, an incident happens and the human being if in a car the reaction is cholera, on the other hand if we walk the same thing does not happen ...
It is to reflect philosophically, now the phones and new technologies that undermine us the understanding of natural reactions such as love, the letters were suppressed by the bits .. Greetings and my respect my support as always.

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