Someone asked me

Hello Mrs.Maria

I am a bisexual man and have had sexual relations with men and women.

but every time I have sex I am obliged to use condoms.

but what worries me, when I have oral sex into a man's penis, and the man orgasms into my mouth, but I spit out the semen, is there a risk of contracting HIV? I did oral sex with the man at 10-8-18,

I am often vigilant when I have sex, which is by using a condom, but it comes to my mind that HIV is transmitted through oral sex? because many people don't use condoms for oral sex ...

the man also oralized my penis and I also orgasm in his mouth, but the man swallowed my sperm. Adding to my worry is that the man's habit of swallowing semen will become infected with HIV with another man before me?

at this time I have diebetes. but there was a rash growing on my waist left and right after I took a bath on the beach / sea water, which is approximately 10 days after I had oral sex with the man at 20-8-18, but disappeared after a week,

just now / 9-9-18 the rash reappeared but only slightly but to the shoulders, this time the rash was strange, when I woke up in the morning there was nothing, but after I was active and the rash appeared but only a mild rash, and disappeared again ... a few hours later it appeared again ... sometimes the rash was not red, colorless but had nodules. sometimes pink. sometimes it develops 1 itchy nodule and makes mild scratching. but before I was in school, I had experienced itching all this time ...

but I have no fever, muscle aches, or esophagus, or flu along my mild rash.

I do have a history of elergic skin but always appear on the neck, abdomen (the head of the custom belt) and on the arm, and often see a doctor.

the point is the question, is I 'blowjob' the penis of a gay man and orgasm in my mouth but I spit, can I get HIV? and the man also blowjob my penis to my cum and he swallowed, is there a risk of contracting me?

and is my type of rash a symptom of HIV infection?

Answer from me

It is important for everyone to maintain their health, including by carrying out healthy and responsible sexual activities. Changing sexual partners, especially with same-sex and people whose sexual history is not clearly known as you do can greatly increase your risk of contracting various types of sexually transmitted diseases, not only HIV, but also gonorrhea, genital warts, syphilis, genital herpes, molluscum contagiosum, chancroid, and so on. This condition, if it is not detected early and given adequate treatment can lead to a variety of dangerous complications, it can even cause multiorgan damage which leads to death.

The HIV (human immunodeficiency virus) virus can be transmitted through exchange (not limited to contact) of body fluids, whether it is sperm, anus, vaginal fluid, blood, and also breast milk.

Taking oral sex alternately with people with HIV can cause you to contract HIV. HIV transmission is minimal the risk of developing sperm from being swallowed. However, transmission is more likely to occur if there is a wound in the oral cavity that is in contact with the patient's sperm fluid. This wound, often small so it is not easily visible by naked eye. Therefore, even if you remove the sperm from your mouth, your chances of contracting HIV remain. Likewise, if an HIV patient who has oral sex on you has a wound in his oral cavity. If this wound comes into contact with a wound on your penis, transmission can occur.

Symptoms that arise due to HIV infection are often not typical. Moreover, in the early days of the infection. Usually, the patient will only show symptoms of mild pain, which is like a common cold cough. Rashes on your skin can appear as a result of HIV symptoms, or can also arise due to various other causes, such as allergies, skin infections, excessive skin suppression, contact dermatitis, drug side effects, insect bites, bleeding disorders, physical or psychological stress, and so on. The absence of fever, muscle aches, sore throat, and also the flu does not necessarily indicate that you are free from the risk of HIV. As mentioned above, most HIV sufferers will not show typical symptoms, except when HIV has reached an advanced stage (AIDS, acquired immunodeficiency syndrome).

Therefore, seeing from your history of sexual activity so far is very risky, it is better for you to go to the doctor or a specialist in the nearest internal medicine. In many health facilities there are currently many VCT (voluntary counseling and testing) - HIV services which include counseling, education, and also blood tests for early HIV detection. Thus, if it turns out you are indeed positive for HIV, then treatment can be done earlier in order to prevent the risk of dangerous complications. It could also be done a series of additional tests for the detection of other sexually transmitted infections. Diagnosis of diabetes should also be enforced through a doctor's examination directly, not just by checking blood sugar independently because of the risk of considerable misinterpretation.

In the meantime, we urge you to stop all forms of risky HIV activities for your own good. Switch your sexual desires to other more positive activities, including by working, worshiping, socializing with the environment, doing hobbies, developing potential, and so on. If you can't stand wanting to have sexual intercourse, then marry so that your sexual desires get a good outlet. Before marriage, of course make sure you are free of all types of sexually transmitted infections that are vulnerable to transmitting to your wife later. Also avoid the use of unsterilized needles, whether to consume drugs, make tattoos, piercings, or other actions that risk transmission of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. If it's difficult, you can also ask for assistance to a psychiatrist.

Hope it helps ...

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