Tomorrow's Horoscope Nov 3rd, 2018

in #horoscope5 years ago

Maybe you are too busy with feeding and taking care of your family.
Maybe you need to give in to peer pressure so you can go along with your colleagues.
Maybe you need to obey your incapable boss so you won't lose the job.
It's difficult to do something as you want if you work or live with other people.

Maybe things have been nerve-racking.
And you may have been killing yourself for the job or your family.
It's what an adult should tolerate and do, some Japanese say.
Without realizing you are at such a stage.

You have no more dreams nor visions.
You are too busy for them.
Maybe you see an old friend who talks of dreams and visions, and tells him "be realistic. Settle down and have a family", sort of things.
Yes, you are just sensible and ordinary.
You are not wrong, and he should stop dreaming because he is an adult, maybe.

Or you could be sort of jealous to him.
We, Japnese call such you, "harming old people" which means old-aged people are too stubborn and conservative that they harm the society.
It is often used to refer to old-aged people at the top of society.
You may be becoming like such old people.

It's not too late to dream.
Have a realistic dream.
Or maybe I should call it a plan if a dream is realistic.
Adults should have plans.
If you have something you are deeply attracted to, go for it.
It is your plan.
You don't need to take a big step, but just one small step would do.
Just try and see how far you can go.
Are you scared you are not talented enough to succeed?
There is a saying "you don't lose until you give up.".
I think it means that you should try until succeed.

家族の世話、生活費稼ぎ。
生活を回し、家族へのケアだけで手いっぱいで。
そんな忙しい日々に忙殺されながら。
周囲から浮かないように、周囲を見渡し気遣い。
使えないやつと思われないように、無能な上司の命令は絶対服従。
集団で生活してると、自分の思い通りにいくことなんてめったになくて。

神経を擦りへらしながら。
自我を殺しながら。
気がついてみれば、もう一人前の大人と言われる年齢。
夢も将来のビジョンもなく。
同窓会で旧来の友人が夢を語れば、「非現実的なこと言ってないで、いい加減落ち着けよ」と。
すっかり大人の分別を身につけてしまっていて。
ひょっとしたら未だに夢を見れてる友人への嫉妬もあるのかもしれない。
老害の一歩手前まで来てるのかもしれない。

今からでも遅くはないと思う。
「現実的な」夢を見ることは可能ではないかな。
もしあなたが今、もっと知りたい、もっと深めたいと思っていることがあるのであれば。
その道のプロを目指せばいいのではないかな。
独立開業なんて夢みたいな話かもだけど。
今は種をまいてみるだけ。
本当に独立開業するかはまた別の話。
守らなければいけないものもあるしね。
どこまで行けるか見てみるだけ。

地に足のついた夢。
現実の延長線上にある夢。
それは夢というよりも、計画・戦略。
夢はあるけどまだ動けていないのであれば、行動に移すのにいい時かもしれない。
行動に移すことで、思ったよりできない自分に直面し、失望するかもしれない。
その時は、成功するまで挑戦すればいいだけ。

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