When we turn back: Everything rests on up to 5 human qualities
"When years, even decades, and turned back, what will it be? What will follow from my path? "
We've all been asking this question at least once. Everyone would want his life to be meaningful and productive. Sometimes not everything depends on ourselves, we must admit. So it is not a hurry to judge people. The results of man's life are a combination of his character, his upbringing, his dreams, his labor, and a great deal of luck - what people will encounter in what situations he will find himself. It is also important how he will interpret these situations and people.
But everyone can turn back and feel that he has lived meaningfully only if he has spent his days, relying on five great human qualities. Maybe the biggest ones. This is what blogger Mark Chernof of marcandangel.com thinks. He says these 5 qualities are the following:
Courage. Fear is the greatest thief of happiness, reminds the author. Fear is the parent of surrender. He sneaks through closed doors and rob us of the determination and the ability to bring things to the end. And then feel better. Courage, on the other hand, is its antipode. She challenges him, answers him, and keeps him under control. It allows us to challenge ourselves, to get out of the comfort zone and to go to new people and situations. To embrace life with all its pain, endless challenges and incredible, indescribable joy.
Trowel. How happy are the impatient people? The answer is obvious, they are not. Impatience and the sense of constant urgency and anxiety harass happiness. This happens as soon as they occur, and they usually do so when we begin to feel a loss of control. One must always realize that nothing is 100% under his control. We should never cling and we should always know that everything is temporary. And the more we try to direct and manipulate the situation, the more unfortunate we will make the exit and development from it.
Thanksgiving . Being thankful constantly means first and foremost to notice the good before the bad. Seeing the good even if it's surrounded by ugly. Counting the things you blessed with and recognizing how beautiful life is, even when it goes not as planned.
Love. Love conquers everything. She cures. Think of evil. This is the most magnificent, greatest and wonderful human feeling without which life is in vain. If a man loved and gave himself, he did not live in vain.
Forgiveness. "To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love, and you will receive unspeakable peace and happiness," said Robert Miller. To forgive means to free the other from the cage of sorrow and sorrow, but above all, it is to open your heart and give yourself freedom.
Source: www.sciencealert.com , www.pexels.com
