The most pain is caused by the people we really love. The people with whom we are close to and cultivated deep emotions with them have the power that no other has.

We somehow survive if our colleague says something bad. We are not affected by a nervous driver who humps, or a rogue or rude lady in a store. We forget that quickly. But in front of the people we love, it is very difficult to "protect" yourself. It's hard to be unresponsive if someone from your closest does something bad.

We are connected with them with deep emotions and through this connection we allow them to have power over us.

When one of our loved ones causes pain, a wound that is difficult to heal is opened. And if you believe it or not, evil words and actions can also lead to death. Of course, we become the victim only if we allow it ourselves and don't realize the lesson in that kind of relationship!

And just because of this emotional attachment, and the influence of others on human beings, many people are afraid of love, afraid to open their heart or believe someone, just to not allow him the power that somebody above us has when we are emotionally attached.

Why am I writing this? Especially in order for each of us to be aware of the power that we have over the people who love us.

Of course, it always depends on each individual, how he responds, how he perceives the world and people around him, and whether he allows them to come to him alive. But let's admit that it's hard to be uncomfortable when it is disappointed by someone we love with all our heart and soul.

So be kinder with words and actions to our loved ones. Let's just be a bit more gentle and realize what kind of responsibility we have.

Let us also be aware that we can be the ones that will help them heal their wounds ... And they will certainly help us.

I wish you a pleasant weekend ahead, and like almost always - photos were made by me, and my Samsung A5.