Day 355 | Yoga & Tinder
I was close to making it into an off day yesterday, but knownig I have at least a couple of readers who watch how i'm doing really helped to force myself to do better. So I did not allow myself to go there and stuck to healthy food and put another Yoga Session in the books. Special thanks to my friend Sasha who told me he found a flaw in how I'm going about things as trying to live cheaply is not exactly a good combination with wanting to get more social. I have been thinking the same thing and I agree but I will find a way around it.
I am slowly starting to get back out there and intend to put the social improvement high on my to do list the first 100 days of my 2nd year. The tinder match I got did reply but conversation is not exactly going anywhere since she tends to write rather short replies. I really hate small talk and am the worst at it also because I feel very manipulative doing it. I usually propose to go for a quick drink if the distance is not too far. I doubt she will take the offer give the fact how short the replies generally were but I'll see.
There is also this girl in the hot yoga I have my eye on. I haven't gotten to talk to her yet but I will do an attempt next time she's there.
| Day | Sleep | Awake | Blogpost |
|---|---|---|---|
| Tuesday | 00:20 | 07:45 | 08:35 |
| Wednesday | 23:50 | 07:30 | 08:15 |
| Thursday | 00:10 | 07:30 | 08.10 |
March Expenses
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March 01: 10.43€ (Supermarket) |
March 11: 7.76€ (Food) |
Total February: 103.44€ (Projected: 247€ | Goal <300€)
| Checklist | Mon | Tue | Wed | Thu | Fri | Sat | Sun |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Healthy Eating | v | v | v | - | - | - | - |
| Supplements | v | x | v | - | - | - | - |
| Daily Reps | v | x | v | - | - | - | - |
| Sport Activity | v | x | v | - | - | - | - |
| Socialise | v | v | v | - | - | - | - |
| Clean Appartment | v | v | v | - | - | - | - |
| NoFap | x | v | x | - | - | - | - |
| Moring Shower | v | v | x | - | - | - | - |
I don’t think living cheaply necessarily has to be at odds with socializing. And if living cheaply is a value of yours, which it seems to be, I would focus on finding people to interact with who have that same value. Spending more money than you’re comfortable with on drinks and dinner and only having a somewhat fun time is such a disappointment the next day.
More than anything, getting to a point where I'm free financially is a big goal for me. The way I look at it, most people are working a shitty 9 to 5 job to buy things they don't need to impress people who don't care and they don't even like all that much. Having a lifestyle without that many costs simply makes reaching the point of being financially independant far more easy. Right now I'm just going a bit to extremes when it comes down to my spendings as I'm in a stage to build things up again. One of the problems I have socially is that 95% of the people just think and do exactly the same and I have a hard time relating to that. Like you say, I'd love to find more people with similar ideas but it's not that easy :)
Life is funny. You say it’s not that easy, but I think it really is. Being patient and faithful and devoted when times are tough, that is difficult.
I recently heard someone talk about how much money they wasted employing the wrong people. It’s the same with your personal life. The best partner for you is probably only one step away from you. It’s just a matter of connecting the dots.
It seems easier said than done, but it isn’t. And taking the extra time to find the right person is well, well worth it!
Good thing you found enough motivation and discipline to stick to your routine. Once you are off the tracks it's easy to stay there and very hard to get back on it. Good luck with the hot yoga girl.
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yes it's insane, when being in the flow it's easy to stay in it, but once out of it getting back on track tends to be a struggle. If anything, keeping this daily blog helps me to stay in the good mindset longer and forces me to get out of a bad mindset quicker. Thanks !
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