What are the tips to keeping lasting relationship?

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There are factors to be considered for any relationship to last long. These factors are:

1. Patience: If a person feels or claims to love the partner, then that person must possess this character. Patience will help one endure with the partner in trying and tough times. If there is true love in the relationship, then both partners will have to be patient and hope that tommorrow will be bright and that things will not always remain the same.

2. Understanding: when two lovers understand each other, the relationship is healthy, they both appear healthy physically and mentally. One is quick to catch the lovers smiling when they is actually understanding in the relationship. They also lack time for quarrels.

3. Love and trust: This I will say is the basic factor needed in every relationship for any relationship lacking these two is therefore not a relationship. Both partners must love each other dearly. And they must also have trust for their partners, because lack of trust has broken so many relationships. Try at all times to make sure u satisfy your lover in all aspects so he/she won't see the need to cheat on you. Lack of trust only but brings fights.

4. Tolerance: Tolerance is another factor not to be ignored in a relationship. Human being display characters most times out of anger or stress. So to maintain a strong relationship, it is in our place to make sure that we maintain a peaceful environment when we sense funny behavior that can be unhealthy to our relationship.

5. Caring: As lovers, we must care for each other dearly, we should not let an outsider care for our loved ones more than we actually care for them. So at all times, we must ensure to care about our partners welfare, this will make them feel loved and also boost their love towards us.

6. Peaceful: Most importantly, we must at all times try to maintain a peaceful environment. Doing these shows the level of our maturity. Even when our partner wants to start up a fight, we avoid them by simply displaying our peaceful attitudes. It dosen't mean we are silly. It only shows we are matured.

7. Respect: Lovers must have respect for each other irrespective of their age differences. Treat your lover like you are agemates. Age dosen't matter when it comes to true love. The partners will also be able to flow well.

From my own view, this factors I think can lead to a long lasting relationship.