BE A LEADER

in #life5 years ago

"In the day of good enjoyment of good; and in the day of adversity consider.
God did both one and the other, so that man would find nothing after him. "
(The Bible - Ecclesiastes 7.14)


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To understand the true meaning of "being a leader with oneself", I propose to you an experience in the simplicity of the kitchen of our home. In three containers with boiling water, place a carrot in one of them; in the second, an egg; in the last add two or three tablespoons of coffee and respect the cooking times of each of the elements, placed in the boiling water.
You will notice that the carrot, before cooking was rigid, hard and very difficult to break; while after being boiled in the water, it became a soft body and very easy to crush with a fork.
The egg, with its fragile appearance and a fluid spirit, after passing through boiling water, seems to have undergone transformations; however, by breaking its shell, you will find that the fluidity hardened, as well as your heart or bud.

The coffee, on the other hand, dyed the boiling water and even gave it aroma and flavor Adversity acts with human beings, as He made the "boiling water" with the carrot, the egg and the coffee.

How do you consider yourself in the face of adversity? ...

Is it carrot, egg or coffee?
Do you have an appearance of hardness and stiffness as a carrot, difficult to break, that in a circumstance
adverse of life softens to the point of getting rid of depression?
Are you like the egg, maybe? ... So much so that your spirit hardens like his heart, to the point that, when
there comes an opportunity to love, you do not even realize that your feelings were blocked?
Or is it like coffee? ... and chooses to turn their adversities into real "challenges" of life, into real "opportunities" to learn and strengthen.
"Opportunity" is a word composed of the Latin meaning "before the port". That is, after sailing, there is always an opportunity. Undoubtedly, if you were shipwrecked, you would have drowned in the sea of ​​disappointments and you would never have reached a "good port", to undertake a more prepared trip, thanks to the learning obtained in that constant sailing of life.
"Personal Leadership" is the human condition of self-discovery It is discovering and strengthening your strengths;
is to accept and transform your weaknesses, exploring the depths of your Inner Self, where God dwells, the essence
of the universe and its principles.
We have "put" the idea in our minds to be a "leader" is the land of a few, of some "elect";
However, do you consciously remember the many times that he has led situations in his life with total
naturalness and detachment?

One is not born being a leader: it is something that is learned and for this it is necessary to make the decision to do so with total "determination".
It is certainly said that: "the art of being a leader" is the "art of being oneself". Art, therefore, is related to beauty; and just as beauty can not be defined easily, although it is "distinguished" when viewed; this is the leadership of oneself.

When you lead yourself, you are handling the tools of inner knowledge. You will be a human being who has decided to accompany himself and "take charge of his own being". That beauty that emanates as an inner light expands outwards, showing its fullness, its simplicity and its creativity in the "daily encounter" with happiness.
To become a leader is to turn the seed into the flower of the "self", of the authentic being, of being with values, of overcoming the ghosts of fears; of being grateful to God and his inexhaustible love, source of our balance and harmony.

Remember

Personal Leadership is a process of lifelong learning. You have been born with unique and unrepeatable natural gifts and talents; those wonderful abilities and attributes that you have to discover or empower to surpass yourself day by day and serve humanity as an instrument of God.
Personal Leadership is in the nature of every human being and is reflected in how you respond to situations in life.
Personal Leadership manifests itself in the everyday, at the precise moment that you take each decision and generate your actions, however tiny they may be. When his acts or responses to the events of daily life meet his Higher Meaning by which he has come to this world that is that voice of conscience that speaks to him - his life is understood in an evolutionary and ascending direction.

Many people in the world reach the end of their lives without knowing or discovering this meaning or higher purpose for which each human being has come to this world, since neither you nor anyone else came by "chance".
Personal Leadership expands in its commitment to life, in the conquest of the will to express that light interior full of brightness, which emanates every time you enjoy what he does; every time he shares his achievements;
every time he gives his gifts and talents to the service of the the rest; every time it builds and transcends in the simplicity of life.

I propose auto-answer with true
consciousness to these questions, every day of his life:

  • Do I feel a victim of circumstances?
  • I complain all the time?
  • Do I criticize others?
  • Do I judge or condemn people and situations?
  • Do adversities direct my life?
  • Am I loyal to my principles and to others?
  • What are the values with which I live my life?
  • Do I recognize my emotions?
  • Do I lead those emotions that I recognize in me?
  • I self-motive?
  • How many positive thoughts do I choose to have in my mind?
    Day to day?
  • Do my fears almost always take over me?
  • Am I what I am, or am I doing at this moment?
  • What I do, gives meaning to my "Being" ?, or What I am, I
    Does it make sense of what I do?


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Excellent reflection @darlenys01, the leader is one who has determination and every day is done with humility and perseverance.

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Leadership is an issue that many want to execute, but that few prepare to exercise, many exercise leadership by blaming others for their failures, others dulling others to submit, and the true leader is the one who motivates and sets eyes on Christ. main leader.

Thank for sharing.

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