Don't focus too much on him who hates you, so that your heart has no room to hate it

in #life5 years ago

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Asking everyone to like us is impossible, because surely as good as we are in front of humans, then there must be some people who will not like it.

Whether because of the shortcomings that we have, or because of the strength we have. And our job is to guard the heart wherever and whenever, especially when someone really hates us.

The point is, don't let your heart not feel good and return to hate it. Then be wise when someone hates you, never forget that on the other hand there are also those who love you.

Don't focus too much on him who hates you, so that your heart has no room to hate it. do not let your heart dissolve in hurt because you feel bad, if not really at the end you will lose before God.

So just let other people hate you, especially those who really don't like everything you do. Because when he hates you, the real business is not with you, but with God the owner of your body and soul.

The wise nature that you have to do is just soften your heart to be more patient, because by continuing to be patient then you will not hate even though you have been hurt, you will not be resentful even if you feel uneasy, and you will never be angry if you realize that by being patient God will add goodness to you.

Remember wisely, than you are busy thinking of him who hates you, you better be busy thinking about who really loves you, who wants to accept all your shortcomings, and be grateful for the advantages that you have.

Therefore, keep your heart from being provoked by emotions. Because when you're complacent for anger, then igniting your hatred will be easy. And you must realize that the hatred of others for you is also for the heart. So be patient!

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