Dear friend, today I want to share my experience with you all and I hope we will get better especially not to hope for others and always rely on ourselves. We start with easy questions, is your life happy? Want to be answered, surely all answer correctly, but we need to know often many problems. Want to be answered no, why life feels irrelevant if answered unhappy. And is not happy being the classic reason of many people.

We need to know that happiness will bring the quality of life for a better person, and because there is spirit, hope, and joy in life. A child who is familiarized and educated happily will be an intelligent and creative child.

And you need to know that happiness is contagious, just as with fear and anxiety. For example, you smile greeting others sincerely, usually will smile back you, praising the appearance of friends well will usually increase the intensity of his sense of happiness, providing small help can also help make people happier.

So happy it is like falling in love, when you fall in love with people, things, or work all feel good, run with passion and cheerful. And then, in these conditions usually "performance" someone will be very good. If the person works in the office then the result will be super maximal.

And because happy can be transmitted, then the question is whether your parents are happy? And is your family happy? Make this a moment's reflection.

And why are not people happy? One easy answer is, because it does not live as it should. Or in other words worse, do not know the purpose of his life. Not living life as it should. Do not understand, why he must exist in this world, and what is the function of his life.

And there are people who feel in love with music, but the school is accounting (because of the urges of the parents), so he lives a hard life. So like a fish that must live in the water, but forced to live on land.

And or someone who loves sports, say soccer, but is forced to study law. And can he perform well in his school? Can the maximum in school? Can not.

And usually at a certain point there will be saturation and temporary off. Off state is a situation where life is so boring, bored, and frustrating.

How to solve all this? then take the attitude to not have to blame others, although this life sometimes become misguided because of the actions and contributions of others. And respond calmly and well first. Anger and blame often do not make things better.

Then develop a grateful awareness. You need discipline in gratitude, do intentionally and routinely. Not just children, but parents also need. Just do it regularly.

And write down 10 things you're grateful for today, like "I'm grateful for the cool, clean air, I'm grateful for a decent meal, I'm grateful for today's work, a healthy body, money available, and more."

And I talked to the owner of my salon that I know well for 5 months. And he told me and consulted me after learning my background as an educator. His 13-year-old son, has unpacked two laptops worth 4 millions and 8 millions.

But this good parent does not give up, so he knows his son's favorite. And he wanted to find the best school for his son to learn computer hardware and software, began to be directed from now according to the will of his son. The child is also invited to discuss about his preferences and studies. Glad I heard this. A child who knows the purpose and a truly grown-up parent.

How about you? then you care about your child's happiness? You can take personality tests for free on this website. This test can help you in getting to know and communicate better with your child.

Hopefully useful, and for my attention very thankful

@hafis