Try to be as realistic as possible

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We often go through good and beautiful times, which brings us together, but at other times we feel that we have misjudged the people we love. This was one of the things that bothers us, and makes us tired of our lives in general. Who you love, you have to make a great effort which is for you like a disease that is difficult to get rid of it, nostalgia always brings us back to the point where zero feelings and nostalgia and others

It is normal to feel sad as a result of the loss of a person who was a large part of life, but it is more natural that a person does not surrender to this, give himself the opportunity to start life again, and not stop when it happened, Such as meeting with friends, or experimenting with new things that have not been tried before, will remove the constraints that are related to the previous relationship, and remove the attraction that was present little by little

Self-esteem is more than anything else. Self-esteem reflects the self-respect of oneself, and at the same time this self-respect expresses a person's self-esteem, and besides that he has to know that he will not get love from anyone else, This fact is necessary when trying to get rid of a love, as it proves to the world that this person is capable of coping with life and difficulties. It helps to rebuild self-confidence, defy private fears, and start life again with all strength

I always advise you to try to be as realistic as possible, to remove the rosy picture in your mind of any relationship and to stop seeing around you in the image of the angels. Often, the individual can not see the negative qualities of the other or the relationship in general, Consider these negatives that will make you rethink what has been and reassess you, helping to try to get rid of some love, but be careful not to overdo it; to avoid resentment of others and move forward.