Body language secrets.

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The body language is instinctive, unconscious movements that can tell you everything you need to know what to do! Find out how to read a partner's thoughts after his movements!

To observe the signals sent by the conversation partner to you with your body is a very useful social skill. Many of us find them naturally, but most are too annoying to follow them. But it's not so difficult to learn it, and with a little practice it will become an automatic skill.

Pay close attention to how close your partner is to you.

The closer he is, the more he thinks about you. If he approaches you, you will most likely like him and he will feel comfortable with you. If you get close to each other, then you both feel comfortable in the other person's community, and this can mean a lot. But this may also mean that he perceives you as a good friend, or even compares with a family member (like a brother, sister, etc.).

Watch the head position.

Slightly inclined and downward inclined head shows strong sympathy for you. Likewise, the swinging up of the head shows flirtation and a feeling of being in your company. Down tilted head shows the desire to hide something. If it's after a compliment, then one might be shy, or he really do not really believe in what he's told. It should be noted that in some cultures the downward inclined head is a sign of respect. Head tilted to the side shows the confusion or challenging, depending on his eyes, eyebrows and mouth gestures.

  1. Look into eyes.

People who look at the edges a lot are confused or nervous. If a person does not look at the conversation member, but continuously removes his glance, it indicates discomfort or insecurity. If a person has turned his head against you, but his eyes are mistaken, it means that the person does not trust you or is not convinced of you. If a person looks down a lot, it shows a person's shyness. People also look down if they are offended or try to hide what's emotional. Sometimes looking down is a shame or guilty one. It is worth remembering that eye contact in some cultures is considered to be a disdain. If the glance at the conversation seems to be somewhere far away, it usually indicates that a person is deeply in his thoughts or not listening.

See if the talk member reflects on you.

If the partner in the conversation reflects on you - imitates your body condition, it clearly indicates that he wants to establish a social contact with you. Try to change posture, body condition. If a person unknowingly imitates the same posture, then this certainly reflects on the reflection.

See hands.

People with crossed hands end up with social impact. Though many people crossed their hands after a habit, it shows that a person is reserved, bitter, uncertain about his appearance, or simply trying to hide the ketchup stain on his shirt. :)
If the arms are crossed and the legs are laid in the shoulder width, it is a rigid and authoritative human posture. Also, it must be understood that if it is cold, then people cross their hands so that the body loses less heat. If a friend of a conversation rubs his hands, touches his body, or fits one with one hand to another, this indicates that he is trying to cheer himself up, to make the situation more comfortable. So, most likely, he does not enjoy the current situation, conversation with you. If a person places his arms behind his neck or head, this indicates an openness to the current conversation. Hands on the hips point to impatience or waiting.

Pay attention to the gestures during the conversation.

Exaggerated movements express the passion for the current conversation topic. Frequent gesticulation with hands is evidence of human attempts to convince you of something. Given the intensity of gesticulation, can read the language of the human body, but it should also be remembered that the exact information will depend on the context of the conversation.

Watch for nervous movements.

If a person brings back his hair with his fingers, this may indicate a simple haircut, an affection for you, or an idea of the current conflict with you. The member of the conversation may not give it by words. If you also adhere to raised eyebrows, it certainly suggests that the person does not agree with you. If a member of a conversation wears glasses and always shoots them up to the nose, this indicates that the member of the conversation does not agree with your saying. Tightening eyebrows says that a member of the conversation is trying to understand what is being said or what happens.

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