Different Stages In A Relationship.

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There are 5 different kind of stages in a relationship. Number 3 is the most important one. It is actually where some relationships hit the rock. Most relationship do not survive some of this stages while some successfully reach the last stage.
They are:
Attraction Stage.
This I the stage when you start developing soft spot for a person. In this stage of a relationship, you are controlled by your excitement hormones. Everything that person does makes you happy, you smile every time they're with you and laugh to their dry jokes too. The physical attraction with that person gets stronger and stronger everyday and you're totally obsessed with that person.

Romantic Stage.
At this stage, you begin to live the "Love is blind" kinda life still controlled by your excitement hormones. Here love is expressed at the peak and you begin to get plenty of assumptions, some of those assumptions could be wrong as well though. In this stage you feel peace and extreme security in your relationship which makes you more relaxed than ever.

Intellectual Stage.
This stage is where your intelligence is what is sexy rather than your attractiveness. Nobody wants to to date a dum-dum, every man loves a productive woman same as every woman loves and intelligent and industrious man. This I will say is the most important part of a relationship and so many people out there today see this stage of relationship as a threat. This takes a while lot of sacrifice, compromise and convictions to keep two people together which makes it the most complicated stage in a relationship.

Acceptance Stage.
Here you fully understand your partner after plenty of adjustments. You accept the person for who they at and you see pass their flaws and mistakes. You assist your partner grow and work better on themselves. You do not assume anymore rather you pull your assumptions into reality.

Maturity Stage.
This is the stage where you let little things cause big trouble in your relationship. You see beyond unrealistic expectations and begin to appreciate your partner's worth. This is the stage where you totally understand that person and what differentiates them from you, the way they act and how they see things no matter how different you both think.

Which stage is your relationship now? Well I will leave you with your thoughts for now bit please do make sure you've made it pass the intellectual stage because a lot of breakups happen in the intellectual stage.

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What do you think about Mr Jeff Bezos,who is divorcing after attaining Maturity stage.

Probably they couldn't work together anymore hence divorce is the only available option...

Thanks for sharing. It is very true and educative

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