SELF-THOUGHTS | Why women should experience traveling solo?

In this modern era, Women are always busy with work , responsibilities and dramas in life. Just try to imagine this a woman traveling and exploring new places all by yourself. Discovering new adventures , meeting new people , trying thing you have never tried and doing it without any limitations .

Most of the people would ask these questions .

“Will you be okay? You’re a woman. It’s dangerous for you to travel solo.”
“Are you sure you want to travel alone? Isn’t that sad?”
“Oh, really? You travel on your own? Don’t you have any friends?”

These might be true but when a woman travels alone , she should be with someone and enjoy together with them . In reality , if we go with someone we can experience some issues or misunderstandings . When a woman travels alone , the most common reason is she might be depressed and broken-hearted.

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I guess not all women who travels alone are lost or broken . There are some who travel because they wanted to be away from stress , problems and experience new things in life . Traveling alone can open a lot of doors which we did not know. Nowadays, our lifestyle is full of dramas and we can't help it but we can be exhausted sometimes .

Here are some of reasons why :

• We can discover our TRUE SELF

Some would say that we have different kind of personality when we are alone and with friends. We can just pretend if we are in front of our family and friends. Sometimes when we socialize , we tried to forget our true self. Traveling alone is one way in finding your inner self. You will have the chance to get to know the real you and get to know the person inside you . You can discover your true purpose in life and your own desires. You can self reflect and reminisce the things you have done in your life so far. At the end of the trip , you will find reason to love yourself more than anything else.

• Teaching yourself to enjoy own company

In this modern era, we tried to depend on everything together with someone. We have some plans and sometimes it is not successful because you have no one to accompany you . This is always a common scenario in real life. How about traveling alone without any plans? At the end of the day , if you succeed in traveling alone . It can make you realize that traveling alone is a good idea and spending time by yourself is an amazing thing to do in your life.

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• Getting out of your COMFORT ZONE

Women are capable of being dependent to someone . We are always the type of person who always like staying in what we are used to . I guess it is not right to stay the same . You should try to explore and discover new things . When you travel you can experience being alone and become independent . You can do the things by yourself and you can realize that being out of your COMFORT ZONE is the best achievement in life. We should not settle for less and crave for more. You know that you can be a better version of yourself . ^_^

Taking a step outside of the world that you are used to will make you more independent and will help you grow as an individual.

• You can be the BOSS

If you travel with someone , you cannot do the things that you want , where you want to go , what you want to eat because you will be held back by the decisions of your companion. I think this is not good . You should be your own boss and you should have 100% in control . Traveling alone can give you a lot of advantages . You can do everything that you want without any complains. You can be lazy or be crazy all by yourself . No one will limit you . The important thing is your own happiness . Be the BOSS GIRL ! GO GIRL !

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We all know that traveling alone is scary and dangerous but who knows you will enjoy traveling alone . Being a woman and young is a great advantage so why not step out of you comfort zone and start BACKPACKING . What are you waiting for ? You should go out and follow what you heart desires .

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Have you ever tried traveling alone ? Please share your experiences in the comment section . I would love to hear your thoughts and ideas. Thank you for reading my post for the day . I hope you like it.

Lovelots,
@joancabz