Sometimes you have to loose to win

in #life6 years ago

Life beyond any doubt can hit you hard! Abruptly, when you wouldn't dare hoping anymore; life has a talent for testing you in ways that you don't feel arranged for. I feel like life some of the time tests and shapes you in a way in which you feel minimum prepared. It appears you don't get the opportunity to pick the activity hardware the Universe difficulties and fabricates your quality with.

At the point when this is occurring, it's anything but difficult to drop into a casualty mentality. It's anything but difficult to feel stuck, vanquished, and like you are a losing player in the session of life. This casualty mentality contends (boisterously) that we have lost; that no good thing is not too far off. Always remember that the volume of a contention does not mirror the legitimacy of the contention. Because the casualty attitude contends that we are losing, doesn't imply that it's valid. Truth be told, I have come to understand that amid the circumstances throughout my life where I thought I was losing, I was really winning.

Life beyond any doubt can hit you hard! Abruptly, when you wouldn't dare hoping anymore; life has a skill for testing you in ways that you don't feel arranged for. I feel like life in some cases tests and shapes you in a way in which you feel minimum prepared. It appears you don't get the opportunity to pick the activity gear the Universe difficulties and manufactures your quality with.

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At the point when this is going on, it's anything but difficult to drop into a casualty mentality. It's anything but difficult to feel stuck, crushed, and like you are a losing player in the round of life. This casualty attitude contends (noisily) that we have lost; that no good thing is upcoming. Always remember that the volume of a contention does not mirror the legitimacy of the contention. Because the casualty mindset contends that we are losing, doesn't imply that it's valid. Truth be told, I have come to understand that amid the circumstances throughout my life where I thought I was losing, I was really winning.

An engaged point of view encourages me see that I can just get more grounded when conflicting with obstruction. It is the point at which I battle that I fortify. It is when tested to my center that I take in the profundity of my identity. It is the point at which we feel broken that we can move toward becoming specialists at repairing.

Quality is found in opposition…

I am my identity in light of the fact that the tears of my past have watered the heavenliness of my present. It is from my broken hearts that I took in the measure and intensity of genuine romance. Each activity I was denied for… opened the way to new openings. Each relationship that hurt me… drove me to my intimate romance. Each oversight I thought would be the finish of me… pointed me towards a mind blowing achievement. Some of the time when you believe you're losing, you're winning.

What challenges would you say you are confronting today that can be reinforcing you for tomorrow?

Give today a chance to be the day you venture out of the casualty attitude and search for the message in the wreckage.

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In Indonesia we have a proverb for that: losing to win.

dont think to much

Sometimes , it’s hard not to

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