[Bilingual] Being old destiny, become adults that option

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What is the meaning of maturity for you? Does getting older make you mature? or your ability to analyze and respond to problems wisely is your sign is an adult? This question is actually for myself, but you can also ask yourself. Here I remember when my teacher gave a story when I was in elementary school.

The school bell rang like a Pennapa Naebchid and Sittichai Vibhavadee song.... (wik..wikwik..wik..uh ... euh ...), Tommy immediately prepared and tidied up his school equipment, while walking home, Tommy saw an object that turned out is a cocoon roll, for a moment he notices and he saw inside is a small butterfly writhing about to escape from the scroll. Tommy then looked for a tool to open the scroll and finally the butterfly could come out and be free. But since release from the scroll, the butterfly can only flap by its wings and never be able to fly. What can you observe from the story above?

1. The process is needed, life is not magic

Cocoon change into a butterfly is a natural process that has been going for a long time, we cannot change it. Let it go according to the process. The assistance we provide will actually be an obstacle to the process. You know ? If the butterfly is allowed to follow the natural process, the butterfly will get enough time to be able to flap its wings.

The butterfly is in trouble to get out, yes it's true, but it's also the difficulty that makes it resistant, capable and strength to face of difficulties. People who do not experience in difficult situations will only be people who easily give up or make a burden on others.

When we often face for difficulties and trials, we will try to find a way out by using all our potential and abilities, which means we are strengthening our wings to fly strong to success.

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2. Comfortable and easy make you stagnant

The ease and comfort given by Tommy to the butterfly finally made the life of the butterfly become static, there was no longer a goal towards freedom with its wings to fly, all became not dynamic and there were no more variations of life. All cause stagnation to develop creativity and mental forging. Tommy should have realized that the difficulties experienced by butterflies were medicine so that the butterfly would remain dynamic and develop its creativity.

Someone said that the successful people are who like challenges and difficulties, because he will find passion for life. Sometimes the choice to not hesitate to make difficulties intentionally when he feels comfortable. Challenges and difficulties are things that must be followed, so we can know our quality and ability.

3. Ages or mindset changed is the maturity ?

Caterpillars become a butterfly, so humans from babies, children, adolescents and adults and finally old. Physically the change is in every creature. Then how non-physical ? Even non-physical, the human beings also experience changes in their mindset or perspective. And this is what will appear in the face of something (adults).

Old is Destiny, Adults is Option. Man's adults is not determined by his old age, sometimes old age but not yet adults in the face of events, someone are still young but he is very adult to facing something in front of him.

Maturity is a phase where we are wiser in facing and seeing things, we not only see from one point of view, we will see how the results and benefits of doing something or facing something. The process of mature thoughts before doing something is also called maturity.

The time continues, seconds change to minutes, minutes disappear and hours appear, hours go, days go by until the day arrives, the month and now the year has changed to 2019. That time continues, from one event to another, the various experiences we have, all of them can make us mature.

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Bahasa Indonesia

Apa kabar steemian ? Semoga hari ini lebih baik dari kemarin.

Apa makna kedewasaan bagimu ? Apakah umur yang semakin tua membuatmu menjadi dewasa ? atau kemampuanmu menganalisa dan menyikapi masalah dengan bijak tanda kamu adalah dewasa ? Pertanyaan ini sebenarnya untuk diriku sendiri, tapi bisa juga kamu tanyakan kepada dirimu. Disini aku teringat saat guruku memberikan sebuah cerita saat aku masih SD.

Pade zaman dahulu...:d

Bel sekolah berbunyi... (wik..wikwik..wik..euh...euh..), Tommy dengan penuh semangat segera mempersiapkan dan merapikan peralatan sekolahnya, saat sedang berjalan pulang itu, Tommy melihat benda yang ternyata adalah rumah gulungan kepompong, sejenak ia memperhatikan dan di dalamnya terdapat seekor kupu-kupu kecil sedang menggeliat hendak melepaskan diri dari gulungan itu. Tommy lalu mencari alat untuk membuka gulungan itu dan akhirnya kupu-kupu itu bisa keluar dan bebas. Tapi sejak lepas itu pula, kupu-kupu hanya bisa mengepak-ngepakkan sayapnya dan tidak pernah bisa terbang. Apa yang kamu dapat amati dari cerita di atas ?

1. Proses itu diperlukan, hidup itu bukan sulap

Kepompong menjadi kupu-kupu adalah proses alami yang telah berlangsung sekian lama, kita tidak bisa mengubah keadaan itu. Biarkan hal tersebut berjalan sesuai prosesnya. Bantuan yang kita berikan justru akan menjadi penghambat proses itu. Kamu tahu ? Kupu-kupu itu seandainya dibiarkan mengikuti proses alam maka kupu-kupu itu mendapatkan waktu yang cukup untuk bisa mengepakkan sayapnya.

Kupu-kupu itu sedang dalam kesulitan untuk keluar, ya itu benar, tapi kesulitan itu pula yang membuatnya menjadi tahan, mampu dan membentuk kekuatan dalam menghadapi kesulitan itu. Orang yang tidak mengalami situasi sulit hanya akan menjadi orang yang gampang menyerah atau membuat beban bagi orang lain.

Ketika kita sering menghadapi kesulitan dan cobaan, kita akan berusaha untuk mencari jalan keluar dengan menggunakan seluruh potensi dan kemampuan yang kita miliki, itu berarti kita sedang menguatkan sayap-sayap kita untuk kuat terbang menuju kesuksesan.

2. Nyaman dan mudah membuatmu stagnan

Kemudahan dan kenyamanan yang diberikan oleh Tommy untuk kupu-kupu itu akhirnya membuat hidup kupu-kupu menjadi statis, tidak ada lagi cita menuju kebebasan dengan sayapnya untuk terbang, semua menjadi tidak dinamis dan tidak ada lagi variasi hidup. Semua menyebabkan kemandekan untuk mengembangkan kreativitas dan penempaan mental.
Harusnya Tommy sadar bahwa kesulitan-kesulitan yang dialami oleh kupu-kupu itu adalah obat mujarab agar kupu-kupu itu tetap dinamis dan berkembang kreativitasnya.

Pernah ada yang berkata yaitu orang sukses adalah orang yang suka akan tantangan dan kesulitan, karena dia akan menemukan semangat dan gairah hidup. Terkadang pilihan untuk tidak segan membuat kesulitan-kesulitan dengan sengaja ketika dia merasa sudah nyaman. Tantangan dan kesulitan adalah hal yang harus dijalani, agar kita mengetahui kualitas dan kemampuan.

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3. Perubahan umur atau perubahan pola pikir mendewasakan diri ?

Ulat bermertafosis menjadi kupu-kupu, demikian manusia dari bayi, anak, remaja dan dewasa dan akhirnya tua. Secara fisik perubahan itu ada pada setiap makhluk. Lalu secara non fisik ? Secara non fisik pun manusia juga mengalami perubahan pada pola pikir atau sudut pandang. Dan ha inilah yang akan muncul dalam menghadapi sesuatu (kedewasaan).

TUA itu Takdir, DEWASA itu Pilihan. Kedewasaan seseorang ternyata tidak ditentukan oleh sudah berap tua umurnya, adakalanya yang berumur tua tapi belum dewasa dalam menghadapi peristiwa, ada pula yang masih muda tapi ia sangat dewasa menghadapi sesuatu di depannya.

Kedewasaan adalah fase dimana kita lebih bijak dalam menghadapi dan melihat sesuatu, kita tidak hanya melihat dari satu sudut pandang saja, kita akan melihat bagaimana akibat dan manfaat dalam melakukan sesuatu atau menghadapi sesuatu. Proses pemikiran-pemikiran matang sebelum melakukan sesuatu ini yang juga disebut kedewasaan.

Saat ini waktu terus berjalan, detik berubah menjadi menit, menit hilang dan muncul jam, jam pergi, muncul hari, hari berlalu hingga tiba mingu, bulan dan sekarang tahun telah berganti menjadi tahun 2019. Waktu itu terus berjalan, dari satu peristiwa ke peristiwa lainnya, berbagai pengalaman yang kita punya, itu semua bisa membuat kita menjadi dewasa.

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All Pictures taken original by me, using Canon EOS 800D, Date taken : January 5, 2018, Location :Aceh Jaya and Banda Aceh, Aceh, Indonesia.


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Beautiful post with good sentiments. I am just happy I was lucky enough to get old :)

Yups, and I am a witness for your maturity, you give me much support and suggestion to me to grow up and spirit for the future. You are old but You are awesome in mature. God bless you for your knowleged transformation

beautiful photos and yes if the life was a magic everyone will live the life that he or she wants

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Nice post my friend.. Beautiful photographs...
Nicely click golden hours...

Gorgeous shots and an interestign read let me respond onaturity I know many tie it with age but I think differently myself, I have seen very mature teens and very immature adults, so I think although with manymyself including we get more mature with age that is not the case with everyone, some will always be immature, and some develop Mature habits from a young age,

Thats what I mean, is the maturity with increasing age make we adults? not necessarily. Because maturity is non-physical so it can be learned even if someone is very young. Thanks for your respond, I think our conversation is a sign our maturity. Is that right my friend @tattoodjay ??

Yes your right it is a sign of our maturity, people taking the time ot thing about an issue and responding :)

I like to read your post and every experience makes to become a man perfect.

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