When someone betrays you, is pure the reflection of their character, not yours!
In life, you never lose friends but learn who is really a friend.
Yes, we suffer when we lose a friend ... but really it was a friend or just was a nice start and then they changed?
Well it's hard to change, after hours of counseling for personal development you can change something in a far better than you were, but in every day life you see the first mask of a person, the second is not the "changed mask" but how he really is.
We find it difficult to open in the first phase they do not want to hurt or disappoint you, but when it does what only matter is just the power to overcome this disappointment.
It is a funny expression "I hate those two faces / masks, is so hard for me to decide who to slap first!" - Just the idea explained above.
We have two faces, we have two temperaments, one shown between friends and family and one among strangers. Can be a large discrepancy between the two and some time to observe only one, the beautiful and empathetic, the good with great kindness and altruism.
You must not be afraid to start a friendship, just how life is made of ups and downs so is a relationship of any kind. Your attitude to what happens during the friendly relations matters and is valued; how and if you can overcome some difficult moments and disappointing and so on.
Feel that you "have existed for friends only when they needed you?" Well, it may be very true, but do you think is your fault? Not so, each are educated and built in a way, do not blame yourself for their way of being. "If they do not talk to you, they talk about you behind your back"; There are people who do this and you can say it is meanly but, their character, their education is like this, "the moth of the world you can not stop".
We grow, we develop, we mature, become knowledgeable friends, get some people that we see once a while because of work, family, existential problems you handle long.
There are also those people very jealous when you meet someone new and you start a relationship of love, I think all we have experienced it... well, those people are "needy", these would be those people who would be intrusive in your life and should know everything and how it happens or else would feel violated and would think it is not right to be any other way.
Your life is changing, as well as friends that come and go in different circles ... "friendship" is relative, some can really understand what it means when the others just say "best friend" but so it can say about the neighbor they see once a month.
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Thank you Lavinia....:)! It went really great with my state! Please keep writting about this subject! Sending you lots of love and blessings to you and your family!