Is Falling In Love Good At Young Age

in #life6 years ago

Love is one the most wonderful feelings anyone can experience. That moment when you go gaga over someone. At day, you think of that someone, at night, you dream of them. You can't go a day without hearing or seeing them, Yea, that's the feeling of being in love. But is it healthy at a young age?

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Falling in love at young could be a bad idea, yea, a really bad idea because of some of the reasons which are below:

  • Multitasking: When you are in love at a young age, it could affect your studies negatively. When you are young, your brain and mind is not yet big enough to manage the feeling of being in love and studies, and such age the feeling of being in love will most likely suppress your studies leading to poor grades and then your bright future is beginning to fade away.

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  • Wrong Choice: At young age you haven't gotten enough life experiences to make the right choice or decision. As a result of this factor, there is high tendency of you choosing the wrong person, which can change you into something you shouldn't be doing at such age such as smoking weed, getting tattoo, and many negative things, because you are in love.

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  • No Identity Yet: When you are young, you have no identity yet i.e you haven't really known yourself very well. But when you are in love at a young age you might mostly never truly learn about yourself, because you are growing up as someone's boyfriend or girlfriend, and this would affect your mind-set and identity.

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  • Love Yourself First: Falling in love at an early age doesn't give the opportunity to love yourself first, which is a very important thing. You have to love yourself first, knowing your dreams and visions in life and try to find that someone that is open to yours and visions and not loving that person so early in your life and you guys get separated, it would be difficult for you to start loving yourself first then.

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Finally, it's advisable not to fall in love when you are young, you have many more years to meet that right person and spend your rest of life with, but don't jeopardize your future for a love that would most probably not be the ONE.

Till Tomorrow Steemians and Friends !!!!

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You have spoken well sir..

Falling in love is really a bad idea at a young age. And me, I would sometimes say it's lust not love.

Yea, lust.
But when you see the lengths some of these teens nowadays go for their gf or bf, then you would see it's not longer lust, but love to them, which has a negative effect on them
Thanks alot for reading through my post @uche-nna

Smiles..
It was interesting reading it. You write so well.
More ink to your pen.

Mmmm.... Interesting. I kinda agree with you on certain points you listed out. Nice article dear

You've said well but just like the first person that commented up there, i still feel there is a contrast between love and lust.

Lust is the one that carries all form of negativity. Love on the other hand is always pure and true

Lust is the one that carries all form of negativity. Love on the other hand is always pure and true.

Love is the best and worst thing in this world. Out of love people do crazy things such as commit suicide, kill the person they so called love because they can't bear losing them to someone else and many more.
Don't get it twisted, love has a lot of negativity, I mean a lot. How was Samson in the Bible captured? Love. Love has it's dark side.
Thanks @morgangreat for commenting I really appreciate it.

Hmm i happened to have found love at my early childhood but she broke my heart and that left a pretty big scar on my heart. I can confidently say I suffered the consequences. Thanks for this post.

Damn!! I feel you @dee-y
Thanks for sharing it with us.

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That's a good one. I believe falling in love is for mature minds, meaning it's not for young ones. Interesting write up!!

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