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How easy do you take decisions?

Taking a decision in life is a very powerful thing to do.

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Do you get convinced easily?
Are you too stubborn to trust?

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Lets take this with a pinch of salt;

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Life is like a movie, everything you do is in record, what you're doing presently is not hidden and what you'll do later in the future is known to some people.
Decisiveness is a war that almost everyone engage in, the ability of reaching a resolute can sometimes be challenging, and it may be the cause of a lifetime ailment(Predicament)/Success or whatever you may ascribe it.

A one time decision can cause the whole world harm or perhaps, makes it a better place, it takes divine wisdom for just one person to decide on the right thing to do.

The decision you take in just a little moment can change the whole world either positively or negatively.

So think it wisely before making it be.

Life is a puzzle and no man can be so sure of what will be, except you're gifted with some kind of supernatural power, even at that, you still can't decide what and what will be in some certain cases.

Hesitation

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Hesitating before taking a decision can also be advised, but not in all cases, because hesitating without considering what to do (thinking strictly about the consequence of the act is making no sense.
Wisdom and experience really matters in taking a decision.

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How does Wisdom affect decision?

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Wisdom is like an exceptional kind of knowledge, you can survive and be who you want to be anytime anywhere if you have it.

That's why most youths of nowadays make a lot of mistakes due to the lack of knowledge(Wisdom)

Total lack of wisdom is the beginning of failure.

I also want to say, the more you think and seek for knowledge the more your wisdom bar increase.

I like to believe every human has a wisdom bag, the more you seek knowledge and achieve something, the more your bag get filled.

Being humble (Special Adviser).

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The ability to think very fast and make a decision is not a small task and the latter impact may be very great, that's why kings tend to have special advisors that will not only guide them but tell them what to do some of the time.

Mostly, the wisest person in a kingdom is the special adviser of a king in a kingdom that has peace, because the source of the kings wisdom is the adviser who also consults some kind of spiritual oracle or whatever he cannot possibly do things by himself.

The adviser must have been advising the king before, and even the one before the one before the present king. They are this strong spiritual kind of person, they don't also make the decision straight, they only suggest and the king finds it worthy.

A king can be a little boy, and the kingdom in which he rules is in harmony/peace, the reason is because he's wise, and what can possibly be the source of his wiseness, humbleness, the fact that he's humble and gentle enough to listen to other people's opinions regardless his integrity, the fact that he listens to his special adviser and do things like they use to be done just like in old times.

Everything has it's basic procedures and if it's not followed as it should, even if you're king it will affect you

If you remember, when prophet Moses came down from the mountains where he went to write the ten commandments and saw his people worshipping idols and celebrating their little statue gods, he broke the commandment without having second thoughts, he didn't think before deciding, he didn't ask no human neither did he ask any God, he made his decision but he later regretted it.

Even a president of a country has a special adviser, a business runner does, and most good leaders do.

To become a leader, you need to be able to take some certain decisions; know when to take a risk and when not to, that's why an advisor may be needed.

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Wisdom is not only by age, it's also by experience, and the amount of patience one has.

Accountancy

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One common mistake most youths make is that, they forget the fact that they'll give account for every act they take. Every act you've taken was a decision you made, whether you were forced to or you deliberately did it as long as you did it by yourself, then you wanted to. You have the power to think it deep before indulging in it.

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This is a true life story that happened to someone very close to me, (A family)

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Let's take for example a guy who is planning to get married in some few months to come, he got approached by another sexy lady in a place a bit far from home, because his kind of work permits him to travel far to execute the assignment given. After he was approached by the lady, already he knew her intent and that little moment when he gave her a positive expression(a broad smile) is like a sign to the lady that; "Yes! You can have me if you're smart" She suddenly became close, not because of she wanted to be friends with him but because she wanted to have him, a lady can be quite distracting in a situation like this, 'She's now in his hotel room, she spills red wine on her off-white tube gown, she demands to wash it clean, she asks if she can spend the night to dry her cloth. All those decisions you've made are powerful ones, the moment you allowed her into your room knowing so well what she wants you also have an hidden intent one way or the other, because you would definitely know that she was up to something right from the moment she said her second hi to you.

Now the last decision that may warrant the accountability is the fact that you decided to sleep on the same bed with her, saying to yourself it's nothing, which you know it's not, after she told you, "oh... It's fine, I don't mind"

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Do the maths yourself, won't you make account for it if she comes to you some days after your honey moon with an heavy stomach?

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So, another thing to consider before taking a decision, no matter how simple it seems is the ACCOUNT that would be made for it, you don't necessarily have to make it for anybody, but it has to be made somehow in some way.
Think of the consequence of what act you're about to take at any moment in time.

Because your wife refuse to have sex with you as a punishment for coming home late all through the week, does that mean you have to go to a motel to have sex with hookers, did you think at all before making such a decision, did you think of the danger in it?, the disease you may contact, that you may later pass on to your wife after you resolve the issue of Come home late, No sex? If she's also the slotty type, or she's also having an affair somewhere, she'll also pass the infection to her boyfriend and the boyfriend will pass it to his side chick or something, and so it goes. The act you've taken, thinking it's nothing, may lead to the death of hundreds of people, there are so many things to think of.

A decision is a powerful thing to take. So, think it deep before making it be.