Rather than Regret , Solve

in #life5 years ago

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I believe it is better to blame oneself for its losses and regrets than to put it on another , no matter how vivid you seem to not be at fault. That might seem controversial but we all need to live by something.

This helps a lot in helping us stand up to the challenges of life. It helps us to not see the solution to our challenges as being independent of us. Rather, it affords us the chance of being open to creation of solutions because we are forced to take full responsibility but there is a clause, more like a clog in the wheel of progress of this philosophy.

Instead of taking responsibilities and looking for solution. Some people beat themselves up when they finally convince themselves as being the architect of their own problems. This is bad, really bad. When I say beat themselves up, I mean they constantly live in the pain of that regret, until it leads them down the alley of addiction, resentment, depression,e.t.c.

Here is my advice:

Hurting yourself for the pain of regrets you feel will only create more regrets, worse than the previous. So, snap out of it. Craft a solution and stay true to it. One day, the regret will sting way less when you have a breakthrough.

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