Love

Love is power, it is energy, the highest of all forms of energy. that energy is so sublime that we relate it to God. Love is God and at the same time it is our true inner nature. It is the center of our being because it cannot exist apart from us, it is what we are. But we humans believe that love can only be found outside of us, outside we look for something that lies within us. That's why we lost our center. We're praying for who we already are. Man is a God, but he sees himself as a beggar.

As the person does not find love in himself, he looks for a person, an idea, a group that gives him the feeling of belonging. He wants to be loved and seeks an external source of love that meets his needs. However, since his search is purely selfish, he begins to demand and make the conditions for others to meet his needs. He wants love and wants to be loved, but he is only ready to love when others fulfill all his conditions. Such condition-based love is not love, it is attachment.

Today, the term love is completely misunderstood. For the most part, what we feel as love is only attachment. But that is a contract, an exchange: "If you do it, then I will love you". Love and expectation work against each other. They cannot exist at the same time because they are mutually exclusive. In love, there is no demand, no expectation of the other. He can only be loved by love.

Clinging creates strong expectations and there is a "reason", a desired outcome, a goal in the relationship. In this way, getting stuck becomes an addiction, a dependence on the desired goal. If the reason for this addiction is not fulfilled, one no longer loves.

On the other hand, people who live in attachment do so with fear, if you don't get what you want, your fear that your expectations will not be met will grow. This growing fear eventually leads to violence, jealousy, envy and hatred.

Love is very different: it leads to compassion, peace, satisfaction, truthfulness, patience, permanence and joy.

Love brings peace and is the only true source of inner bliss that man really seeks.