Being on the other side !

in #life5 years ago

Life is a very challenging field, it is one of the best teacher that we all face along the way. The teachings of it is always splendid and on the long run it comes in handy in every possible way.

While due to the situation of life some people gets what they want and some does not. Sometimes life takes us to that turn where it feels like we are nothing and gives us the sensation of being left out as if we are on the other side of the situation that is currently happening with us.

Whenever something hard/bad happens in our life we do forget that there are people who are having much more harder times then us regardless of that those people tend to live a happy life and go with the flow of life.

Resentment is a hard feeling to deal with but the bitter truth of life is sometimes hard to accept and overcoming it is much harder than that let alone to move on. Besides when you think a little different from the place that you are in things will definitely change.


photo-1473830394358-91588751b241.jpg

Image source



Being on the other side, this feeling is hard to deal with, so I would like to show up few example which I do really like to point out which are indeed happening in our life and some people fall prey to those feelings and takes some rough decisions in their life .

  • When you feel like being left out from a certain situation in your life where you thought this was the last chance that you had, think of about that person who lost everything and now they are stripped of everything that they had but you are still there and have option (maybe that you are not seeing it now ) just explore a little more and make your efforts worth it.

photo-1495558685573-aba7573d9c01.jpg

Image source

  • I have met people who were claiming they can not live with out each other and when one person leaves the other one , one of them feels like being left out from everybody else. They feel like being on the other side where nobody/nothing is giving them priority. They forget that there are people who loves them more they think of , their parents/siblings/friends . Yes it is hard to imagine to be ditched in love but the other person is not worthy of you . It will take some time to recover but do not punish yourself for sth that other person committed. See things a little differently, it will change your life positively.

photo-1536516476995-754d5c4095b8.jpg

Image source

  • Making mistakes is a part of our life and sometimes we blame others for that, such as the situation that we are going through, the people around us, the things that we do not have to give support to us etc and not taking the blame for the actions that we committed. But we forget that problems are a part of our life and so is stress and climbing the ladder of success was never meant to be easy. So every bit if hard situations that we go through is an example to remind us how worthy we are and taking the blame for your actions makes you a responsible person that you are about to become.
Plenty of situations can be described. Remember whatever you are going through there are are people who are going through even worse than that. Be thankful for what you have and be glad to have what you are going through.

That is it for today !!
Have a Pleasant Day Everyone !
Thanks for Stopping By



Join an Amazing City of Neoxian Tribe

CURATOR of neoxian.city
If you want to earn NEOXAG try using neoxian tag on your post
Discord Server




vM1pGHgNcyCXUWJECrZbvn1NMPj1oFGUo3gYfF3NNPRD9bTqisvs9xgB75G9xPgZbPT4QuApQtpz6ThdHJ584iLp3K2DCBSTkTAky9Uw1ambwSjhpTFxnMpgTQk62VyQomsFW7g.png

JvFFVmatwWHRfvmtd53nmEJ94xpKydwmbSC5H5svBACH7z1f2jJiiMpMLffHivvwtmg3BRRYNyMDEonyLRJGcqrXeZdnghVjE6Tq63H6mj43ys3QejrENJcmKX2uwWhfMYyA4aCUfQ.png


Join Steemitbd (Bangladeshi Community)
Curator of Steemitbd
Steem username: @steemitbd
Discord Server


Coin Marketplace

STEEM 0.32
TRX 0.12
JST 0.034
BTC 64664.11
ETH 3166.18
USDT 1.00
SBD 4.11