Get Over The Mistakes Your Parent Made
If your parent criticized you or got angry with you for mistakes you made when you were growing up, you began to unconsciously assume that somehow you were at fault.
If your parent punished you physically or emotionally for doing or not doing something that pleased or displeased them, you felt inferior and inadequate.
When your parent withheld their love to punish you for not doing something they demanded, you might have grown up with deep feelings of guilt, unworthiness and deservingness.
All these negative feelings could then intersect to make you feel like a victim, like you were not responsible for yourself or your life once you become an adult.
The most common feeling that we have as adults if we have been raised in a critical home environment is the feeling that
“I am not good enough”.
Because of this feeling, we compare ourselves unfavorably to others.
We think that other people who seem to be happier or more confident are better than us.
We develop feelings of inferiority.
This can become an emotional trap.
It does not really matter what people says about us but what we think and what God says are all that matters.